I see other people saying another person is loved. Maybe I'm not loved enough because I'm shy and quiet? People would love a happy and talkative person. Oh well, I just mind my own business and talk to my boyfriend and other people. I'm not great, I'm not amazing. I'm just average. I haven't got much friends because I don't talk much. This social phobia and lack of happiness is such a burden on me. I must be happy. I must be able to talk about many things. Some people may see me as a horrible, quiet person but fair enough, I wasn't on this earth to please you all. I just live life for my own. Sorry, I just want to vent. So I'm sorry for the way I am.

[krisakira]

from one shy, quiet, un-amazing, minding my own business, not talkative, unhappy person to another....

Originally Posted by krisakira

from one shy, quiet, un-amazing, minding my own business, not talkative, unhappy person to another....

Awww thanks

[venusss]

You first you learn to love yourself and be comfortable in your own skin. Being introvert is not a bad thing, as much as some pathologize it. Being slightly dark and not spewing rainbows all the time is not a bad thing either in itself...

but ya need to see something in yourself... by yourself.

[advena]

Happycheeks, I see you as the fun, amazing person I play word games with. Thank you for sharing. It helped me because I am REALLY quiet also and I don't make or keep friends easily. I understand and I feel understood.

Originally Posted by advena

Happycheeks, I see you as the fun, amazing person I play word games with. Thank you for sharing. It helped me because I am REALLY quiet also and I don't make or keep friends easily. I understand and I feel understood.

Thank you for your kind words. I'm bad at friendships too.

[Ardmore]

Originally Posted by happycheeks

Thank you for your kind words. I'm bad at friendships too.

No you aren't, I say we became instant friends when we meant

Be who you want to be and don't let anything hold you back

(((happycheeks)))

I could of written this myself.

Originally Posted by Ardmore

No you aren't, I say we became instant friends when we meant

Be who you want to be and don't let anything hold you back

Aww thanks I try to be who I am.

Originally Posted by Buttercup.

(((happycheeks)))

I could of written this myself.

Hugs back.

im usualy the oppisite of this but,
honestly i think its better to be the way you are
it keeps you out of troubble
keeps you from sounding like an idiot all the time (like me)
you dont end up in as many comprimising/akward situations
like im sure there is more,
but im just saying that i admire the quiet people out there

Originally Posted by vickienc16

im usualy the oppisite of this but,
honestly i think its better to be the way you are
it keeps you out of troubble
keeps you from sounding like an idiot all the time (like me)
you dont end up in as many comprimising/akward situations
like im sure there is more,
but im just saying that i admire the quiet people out there

Thanks for your reply. I will stay quiet then.

Originally Posted by happycheeks

Thanks for your reply. I will stay quiet then.

lol, only if it is what you want love

Originally Posted by vickienc16

lol, only if it is what you want love

Being quiet and not talkative is me. If people have a problem, then they don't have to be my friend. I wasn't in this world to entertain or please them.

i agree

[bertieb]

It's a burden being shy and quiet. Been called Mousie, asked what's wrong, or having people think you are incredibly stuck up. Love when my friends tell me about somebody that has ton's of personality and is fun, because I know that is the ideal. I am pretty and have a lovely smile but I'm not the one who talks to people in a social setting. I'm the quiet one that makes other people uncomfortable even though I am a good listener and happy to be there. My friends say they wish they were more like me and could keep their mouth shut sometimes but I hate my quiet personality. New friends will get used to you and your quiet side. I've gotten more accepting of it as I've gotten older and the less I worry about it the better I feel. Just remember, those wildly outgoing people have their own set of worries and insecurities!

Originally Posted by bertieb

It's a burden being shy and quiet. Been called Mousie, asked what's wrong, or having people think you are incredibly stuck up. Love when my friends tell me about somebody that has ton's of personality and is fun, because I know that is the ideal. I am pretty and have a lovely smile but I'm not the one who talks to people in a social setting. I'm the quiet one that makes other people uncomfortable even though I am a good listener and happy to be there. My friends say they wish they were more like me and could keep their mouth shut sometimes but I hate my quiet personality. New friends will get used to you and your quiet side. I've gotten more accepting of it as I've gotten older and the less I worry about it the better I feel. Just remember, those wildly outgoing people have their own set of worries and insecurities!

Thanks for your reply.