[MandiePoo]

So my girlfriend came home from her trip away and broke up with me. Alright, whatever, fine I can handle that.

I am then informed that they have been plotting to kick me out for weeks.

And that I have to be out by January.

This whole thing smacks of has-been-going-on-behind-my-back.. BECAUSE IT HAS.

Im freaking pissed.

[Direction]

Sorry the news broke like it did. Not sure if plotting is your word or hers; Unfortunately, most things do have a certain amount of time of thinking about them before carrying them out.

Do you own/rent? Are you on any documents regarding ownership/renting? If so, you may have more rights if you need them.

[faerie_moon_x]

I agree with Direction. My father has been a landlord all my life. If you signed any type of contract, then you should contact your landlord ASAP (if you have one,) or if your name is on the mortgage if you own, they can't just throw you out. It is your home legally, too. Also depending on where you live in, you may have renters rights depending on if you pay rent or not, even if not on the contract.

I'm very sorry things are going this way for you. I know personally what it is like to be told to "get out" just before the holidays and such, and to feel people you trust just completely abandon you when you're in need.

Hopefully you find a better situation.

[MandiePoo]

unfortunately, I don't have a lease. We were renting from a friends friend, if you know what I mean...and i just found out that the rommate aka landlord who lives in the basement was the one who convinced my girlfriend that I was using her - because I was able to do stuff on my own for a few days while kat was gone.

I am disabled both physically and mentally, and she convinced kat that I was using her to do everything for me and to break up with me. Kat believes that to be true...there isin't anything I can do about that.

I also found out like five of her friends have advocated for her to break up with me - yet they all stayed on my friends lists online.

I'm less mad about the breakup than I am about the behind the back talking and such. We've talked and even she agrees theres nothing I could have done any differently because I am sick. But the landlord said some really nasty things like I am not sick and faking it. The list of stuff wrong with me is ten miles long.

Anyway...its just going to be very uncomfortable here for a month and I am a little afraid of the landlord being agressive...she is not the most sane of people, so to speak. I mean, Im not in any danger or anything but I dont know her well enough to trust her. Apparently she really doesnt like me at all, but I may have said ten sentances since we moved in to her. Im always in my room on my pc.

[faerie_moon_x]

I would say your situation isn't good. Sounds like a strong arm to get you out by the landlord. So because you are disabled, I would contact adult services or whatever ASAP and explain that you need a new home right away. Let them know your situation. Maybe it isn't the best to go through the bureaucracy, but it would be better to have something in the works just in case.

Like I said, in some places they can't just throw you out suddenly if you were paying any type of rent. I know this is true in Arizona at least. Lease or not, I think there are ways to protect renters from being suddenly homeless on the whim of a crazy landlord.

[MandiePoo]

That is a good idea - I hadn't thought of that. I'll endeavour to do that monday.

[MandiePoo]

SIGH

I throw my hands up in the air sometimes lol.

That is how I feel. Things are worse - upon confronting both of them, I found out its actually KAT who lied...the landlord had wanted to ask both of us to leave come january because she felt like there were too many people living here.

Kat threw a fit to her and begged and cried for her to let her stay and threw all this excuses at her about things she had to pay for (also false as ive been paying mostly everything) and she relented and agreed.

All of this was a week ago. Kat never told me, and when she need she said it was all shannyns idea. Not quite how things were.

And now, unless I can find something otherwise, since I didn't sign a lease because I trusted peoples word...I have until christmas to be out and dont have a place to move to until january...shelters have about two months waiting list on them right now. Fabulous eh? I don't even have a winter jacket yet.
Absolutely shell shocked that this occured.