[red_rose]

We have a 11 year old in a foster home the reason we don't have her is becouse of behavor prombles and her father has a mental disorder the two add to each other. We want to take her of out private school and put her into public school where they can handle the behavor . This child can do just about anything as far as behavor goes .Her foster mother wants to waite for awhaile to see if the behavor changes, The child is in couiling and we have have done everything that they want us to do but there are little inprovements in her behavor.Her father has custadoy but the foster parents also have custadoy and placement. Anyone out there that can help out there please let us know ,We want to do right by the child and get her out of the school she is in. We are affaid that she will do harm to the teacher and the other kids in her class. The private school is not the anwer for this child . Please help us : Red_Rose
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Wizzard

[greenfairy]

i dont know much about the legal rights of all parents involved, but in my opinion, the best thing for the child would be for everyone to sit down and talk about this. if youre afraid the child is a danger to herself and others its important to communicate this with the people she currently resides with. i'm sure you all want to do what is in this childs best interest and the best way to go about that is to sit down and discuss. is there a case worker involved that could possibly mediate on your behalf?
wishing you best of luck and keep us posted on how it goes.