[starry starry sky]

I havent been out of the house since Thanksgiving.One of my daughters pulled a stunt on me, that was rude and mean. She is 29, and a nurse. Now, doing cookies at my moms tomorrow and Christmas eve at my moms house is blown! Why does she have to be so mean?

[Leed]

Jeez, can you tell us what she did to you? How does that keep you from going outside? It would help to know what she did so we can better advise you.

I don't have a clue why your daughter was mean to you. Perhaps she has problems of her own that made her do this -- who knows?

But let us know, and maybe we can help somehow. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee

[likewater]

Im sorry, starry sky. By the way i like your name, it's beautiful. I just got out after being away from work for a month. When that
happens, i get really physically ill. I hope this can resolve so you can enjoy the holidays again. Can you tell us what happened? Do you have a T you can call?

[cin1]

just because some one is a "adult", doesn't mean they don't do hurtful things, stupid things. some act before they think things through, not realizing how the other person feels.

[starry starry sky]

My daughter is mean to me cause she likes to cause me pain. I am a wasted space of air she likes to say. I went to a bad shrink and was pretty out of it for along time. I had had 2 psychotic breaks within a couple of years. I didnt do normal things like go shopping my husband did. I am better now then I was then. I understand her anger but she likes to comment like how I am the person everyone doesnt want. Years ago I apologized to her. She put 2 pictures on my husbands wall with all these nasty things written on it. I have permission to go on my husbands page. She wanted everyone to see what she had written about me. My husband is her stepdad. She likes him. I was lucky to find it early in the morning. I have 3 of the messages she wrote. She cleaned out all the pictures we had on our pages that she owned.She wanted no one to see her dirty work. Worst of all she uses our grandson as a pawn. She totally blocked us. she wont talk to her 16 yr old sister about it. I think she got caught by me. She was once a psyc nurse. great nurse! Im sorry for the length

[starry starry sky]

I think I clicked onto the wrong area I have no idea. I have been working myself up to going into the hospital. I missed my therapy appt last week and lied to my shrink. never done that before.My borderline issues have been rough lately. When I found this site on the computer I felt so much better! I usually get really sick to when something like this happens. I was prescribed a med and things get less painful. She knows eactly what to do to me. I spent time being very paranoid depressed. I convinced myself my husband was going to leave me cause my daughter says so. I do get really freaked out emotions that are dangerous how my head starts to work. its like I become very crazy.

[starry starry sky]

i just wanted to say so I can get it out that she hopes I will just be gone and tells me exactly how. She thinks she is so smart! I am having an important birthday this week,, and I wont be seeing my mom for sure now along with my grandson. She screwed me over really well. I know I have to somehow keep it together so I dont slide into the hospital. I can see my 16yr old sleeping. I dont want to go in cuz I want to be a better mom for her. Its hard to keep from sliding into be crazy and reacting to people that want to see you slide.