[and_im_still_here]

i just wanted to let this out a bit. anybody wanna help?
my bf is like really nice and cute, he gives me support or at least is what i feel but since he doesnt know how to help me he just worries and makes me feel worse.
i dont feel right with him anymore, well sometimes i do and sometimes i dont even want to see him. i feel like he cares about himself only and all he does is check where i go, what i do and who are my friends who do i talk to and well its annoying, i dont like going out its not my thing i love being at home and sleeping, i have very few friends and well i dont go out, but he doesnt have confidense and it makes me burst of anger the way he thinks i am because im not anything like he thinks i am.
i really think that this relationship is affecting my way of living.

[Perna]

It does not sound like you want to be with him anymore? Why not tell him and do what you like without the annoyance and anger.

hmmmm... im no expert
but it sounds like he is controlling,

possibly because he has been hurt by a past relationship with a different girl.
who is nothing like you. (or how you decribe yourself to be)

this isn't something you can change, but if you want to understand it more,
try asking him why he treats you in ways you do not like.

i have gone through a similar issue with my ex..
and i tryed everything to change his actions.. it did not help
edventually i got sick of it, and left him.

idk if i helped, but thats all i got here

[and_im_still_here]

Originally Posted by Perna

It does not sound like you want to be with him anymore? Why not tell him and do what you like without the annoyance and anger.

i guess that is a good idea and maube if he really doesnt like who i am and how i am than it may be better to end it.

[and_im_still_here]

Originally Posted by vickienc16

hmmmm... im no expert
but it sounds like he is controlling,

possibly because he has been hurt by a past relationship with a different girl.
who is nothing like you. (or how you decribe yourself to be)

this isn't something you can change, but if you want to understand it more,
try asking him why he treats you in ways you do not like.

i have gone through a similar issue with my ex..
and i tryed everything to change his actions.. it did not help
edventually i got sick of it, and left him.

idk if i helped, but thats all i got here

yeah helps. ill just try to see the reasons why he does it and if its because of the past than i dont think its agood idea to continue the relztionship

[wackywidow]

If you don't feel right with this guy, then take a break from this relationship. Put it on hold for awhile. If he really cares about you he should be able to understand where you are coming from. All relationships are a "two-way" street with a median in the middle and a few "no crossing" zones. Will PM more later. Keep me posted.