[jazzy123456]

many people have asked to be in a relationship with me, i date them for a while but, always say no. men kinda get on my nerves... i've always been that "independent" kind of person... even when i was a pre-teen, you wouldn't see me feeling like I need a significant other to be happy, i just didn't care... and honestly, when I'm dating someone and they do cutesy stuff and call me too much it gets on my nerves and I just want them to give me my space. Like my expectations when dating someone is to probly talk twice a week at the most. the majority of this population i think begs to differ!!.

i have always been career-oriented... what do i want my life to look like years down the road? i stopped dating completley because I always end up turning the guy down.. they seem so disappointed and it doesn't really phase me at all ... i'm just like hmph' okay then.. i dont want to be a b**** but, i'm not intentionally trying to be this way. i struggle with wanting sexual intimacy from girls and emotional connection from guys... ( backwards right?) lol.I'm a girl fyi. i am so young... i might just need to give myself grace to figure this out.

it's hard though, when I just kinda dont want to connect with a guy emotionally but, not physically ... and then the opposite for girls.

wierd. idk i usually just dont care about this type of stuff but, valentines day is coming soon and i've never been in a relationship. i'm 22.

[Confusedinomicon]

You are really young. (My age)

There is no rush to be in a relationship. There is also no one pressuring you to be married at any point in your life.

Just have fun and enjoy yourself. :'D

Either that, or maybe you are confused about your sexual orientation? Either way, it doesn't matter. Just grow in yourself and find comfort in whatever you decide makes you happy. Guys and girls like a person who is confident within themselves.

[shezbut]

(((jazzy)))

I'd say that being honest with yourself is the key.

It doesn't sound as though you have no interest in guys or girls. Perhaps less patience with men, and that's why once or twice a week is good for you? Most men love women who aren't dependent upon their company! I haven't known a guy yet who hasn't enjoyed women who like both sexes. I've known a few lesbian ladies over the years, and they're good people too.

I guess that the answer comes from letting yourself be who you are. Accepting that you are ____, and letting romance in when it does knock on your door. Best wishes to you!

[Mordecaii]

You want a sexually relationship with a girl and an emotional with a guy? am i correct . if so i am the same way in a sense. I love my fiance we are so perfect for eachother and i wouldnt trade him for any guy or girl in the world. but i find girls so much more sexually attractive then i could ever find a guy . is that what you're saying?