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Nov 28, 2011, 09:56 AM
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The 7-Step Guide to Ruining Your Relationship
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle. The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand |
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Nov 28, 2011, 10:04 AM
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Nov 28, 2011, 10:23 AM
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Hehe brilliant LMAO!
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Nov 28, 2011, 10:29 AM
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Apparently some find this guide easier to follow lol.
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Nov 28, 2011, 11:48 AM
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Lol
 I'm guilty here and there.The truth hurts,but,can also be liberating.
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Dec 04, 2011, 10:48 PM
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Ha ha, I love it~ Thanks for the post
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Dec 04, 2011, 10:52 PM
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I'm guilty, too. I think everyone is. It would be nice to have some guidance instead of a sarcastic shot at people's egos. Sitting on a high horse and being demeaning towards readers does nothing to enhance learning or growing.
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Dec 06, 2011, 01:18 PM
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The biggest relationship ruiner is the withdrawing part. Withdrawing emotionally destroys everything.
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Dec 06, 2011, 06:49 PM
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That was very painful to read.
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Dec 06, 2011, 09:06 PM
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Thanks! Good read!
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Mar 29, 2012, 05:43 PM
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Ok I'm a brand new member here and reading this really hits home for me. This is exactly why I joined this site. My bf and I just broke up and I'm very depressed. I have finally realized that I have a "pattern" and after reading this, it's the exact pattern I have had in every relationship. I'm starting counseling again next week to break this but if anyone has advice on how to quit repeating this type of behavior I would be grateful!
Thank you! A&A |
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Mar 30, 2012, 12:48 PM
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A&A You recognized the pattern that's the first step. Starting counseling with that in mind is step 2. It's amazing how many people never recognize it and keep on doing the same thing over and over and over. Bravo - you're on your way to fixing it.... |
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Mar 30, 2012, 01:00 PM
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Hi, A&A, welcome to PsychCentral (PC).
Like Gilead said, looks like you are well on your way to working to change your pattern to one that is more healthy. Patterns are full of steps, kind of like links in a chain, and just identifying and working to break one negative one can help.
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Mar 30, 2012, 01:14 PM
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Thank you soooooo much.
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Mar 30, 2012, 02:34 PM
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Smiling sheepishly
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