What Would You Do?

What would you do if you were in love with someone, and they tell you that they arent worth starting a relationship with because they wont allow you to understand them.

And a few weeks later, they ask you if you really like their best friend. And you reply with; "No, we're just friends." But you secretely do like their best friend.

And the person who asked you this asked you three weeks ago. And you arent an honest person, to the person asked because you have previously told lies to the person you love and doesnt love you back.

And you think that their best friend does like you, but you arent 100% sure, because the reason that they are nice to you might be because they knew you love their best friend.

And you arent talking to the person who doesnt love you back. And the person you have a few feelings for is ignoring your messages.

Should you tell the person that doesnt love you back that you like their best friend, because you've been lying to them for the past three weeks.

What do you do?

I would say - be honest with the best friend. You could tell the one who doesn't love you, but after you tell the best friend......just in case he doesn't want his friend liking you. Yes there's a chance the friend might not having feelings, but you'll never know unless you try.

Im nervous to tell them. If I tell the guy that I like he would get mad at me for lying to him for the past three weeks And I do kinda like his best friend.

Im scared that this would ruin our friendships

But the guy that I really like says that, "You'll find a great guy to be with. And he'll love you, and you'll love him." Etc,

I was thinking of telling the guy I like that way I would see if his friend likes me.

The reason I wasnt honest in the first place was because I knew if I told the guy I like he would tell me to move on, but at the time I wasnt ready to move on and fall in love with someone else

Be honest, my dear. It is the only way that you can move forward. Maybe your feelings aren't really love. Give it time. Good luck.

So are you saying that I should tell my best guy friend (who I really like) that I have a few feelings for his best friend?

Im not in love with his friend, I just have a few feelings for.

Whew, I'm glad I logged in, it's been a while. First off Panda girl, slow down. I can relate to your line of thinking because I've been there. But I've learned that people can not see through me as much as I think they can. Most likely this guy that's friends with the guy you were falling for had no real idea and actually really does like you and is vying for your attention becazuse guys see things very stragith forward. He likes you, and his friend isn't dating you (yet) so he's going to try and date you. He might actually think perhaps you like him more than his friend. Who knows. It's hard to live your life by trying to guage others thoughts and feelings. I know it may hard and tough to do, but if you actually ask him how he feels about you, it will actually be like a weight off your shoulders because then your actually know and gan go from there without the constant anxiety of always trying to figure people out on your own with no info to go on. Creating a dialogue ( amore deeper and open one) can be very helpful.