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Old Apr 21, 2012, 08:57 AM
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If your bestfriend (opposite gender), want to see you naked ?

I know Boys will be boys? but you are friends, is it only curiosity?
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Old Apr 21, 2012, 09:00 AM
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Um Im going to go out on a limb here and say no.....lol.......your best friend is your best friend....just that......if they want to see you naked, then I would say its a bit more than curiousity.....now if you are wanting to see them naked too, then maybe you both want to be more than friends? Now there's a pickle for ya lol....
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Old Apr 21, 2012, 09:10 AM
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normal? idk. but is it something I would advise you to do? no. there are feelings involved with getting naked. so if you are asking US for help with your feelings about an activity that hasn't even happened yet, then you and your friend are not (yet) very good partners in sharing your feelings for the activities you are ALREADY doing, which is just TALKING.

What i'm saying is, he is trying to tell you it's normal; you suspect it's b.s. but you're afraid to say so? walk away from this loser before there are naked photos of you all over the internet.
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Old Apr 21, 2012, 01:36 PM
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Doesn't sound normal at this age. Did you discuss his motivation or laugh it off?
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Old Apr 21, 2012, 02:48 PM
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No, I don't think it's just curiosity. I think this individual wants a lot more than just to see you naked, if not already then soon. I would not advise allowing this.
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Old Apr 21, 2012, 05:52 PM
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i never had any sexual thought about him nor do i want to see him naked. and he is a very kind and its impossible he wont do something awful like posted someone elses picture on net`

He is not freak, he is not pervert , he is my bestfriend
we discussed it, i asked him why he want to see me naked, he always said i always thought you are beautiful ...then i i didnt ask further it was to embarrassing
now i feel weird everytime i have to talk to him

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Old Apr 22, 2012, 12:16 AM
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I...think he sees you in a different light than you see him, to be rather blunt.

I think the best thing to do would to tell him firmly no, and that you're not comfortable with it. That doesn't have to necessarily hurt your friendship with him, but he needs to understand that you want a friendship with him. Nothing more.
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Old Apr 22, 2012, 08:26 AM
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Actually i sent him my naked video , i was high and drunk and we were talking about me wanted to be nude art model thats when he asked me ,i am shocked that he admitted he always wanted to see me naked but iam drunk so i sent it i thought its just a body and when i am back to my sense i regret it but its too late, but then i explain to him that i love him so much and i dont want to ruin my friendship with him, i ruined a lot of thing in my life and i dont want our friendship to be on the list of the things that i ruined
Well he said nothing gonna change we are still friends but right now its little bit awkward between us
if only iam not high and drunk and stupid this wont happened
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Old Apr 22, 2012, 03:48 PM
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yes normal,take your clothes off, hope you dont mind ive brought my camera
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Old Apr 22, 2012, 06:09 PM
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yes normal,take your clothes off, hope you dont mind ive brought my camera
There is nothing shameful or sinful about the human body. Her friend had no right to ask this and puffyprue was uncomfortable with it...but you don't know his motives and neither do I. You seem to assume the worst in everything.
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Old Apr 22, 2012, 08:25 PM
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(((((((puffyprue)))))) ... this happened to me once, we all make mistakes either from naivety of youth or drink. plz don't blame yourself and don't anyone drag you down for it either.
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