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#1
May 15, 2012, 04:36 AM
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Is it cheating if your partner is talking with girls online on facebook and calling them beautiful?? Or asking them for sexy pictures?? also its it flirting?????
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May 15, 2012, 04:58 AM
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i had an ex who love to flirt he said its good for his self esteem but nothing more thats it
But In my opinion it is count as cheating unless both part have an agreement and cool with that... Maybe other have different opinion 
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May 15, 2012, 08:47 AM
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Cheating maybe the opinions vary on this. But I would say it is wrong, and disrespectful to you.
Have you confronted him about this?
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May 15, 2012, 08:51 AM
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I think whether it's officially "cheating" or not depends more on how you define the words than anything else. It's definitely flirting. Whatever you call it, I still think it's wrong. Either you're committed to your partner or you're not. This doesn't sound like commitment to me.
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May 15, 2012, 08:55 AM
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He's flirting with other girls and that's disrespectful to you. It's not cheating per say but it's on the borderline
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May 15, 2012, 02:46 PM
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Thanks for answering in my opinion i consider it cheating and flirting 
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May 15, 2012, 02:49 PM
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Yes your so true it very disrespect to me we been together 3years together. He has accuse me of doing things when clearly i never done nothing wrong. well i am going confront him i been saving the messages he has sent. and im going to print them out to show him i got proves.
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May 15, 2012, 02:52 PM
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it really hurts when i see all those messages the comments he had said to other girls.
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May 15, 2012, 02:53 PM
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May 15, 2012, 05:22 PM
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Do the same. Flirt with guys, see how he likes it. I'm guessing he won't, which should help him realise how you're feeling
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May 15, 2012, 06:01 PM
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So flirting is not the real issue here at this point. I'm sorry.
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May 15, 2012, 11:54 PM
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((isadora))
Personally, I am a little extreme on this issue ~ I always have been! I feel very strongly against this type of behavior from my bf/hub/whatever. I might be accepting of him chatting with others, unless he's chatting about sex. Asking them for sexy pictures? Hell NO!! I am always sure to make my expectations on this topic very clear. That's me.
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#13
May 16, 2012, 02:52 AM
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Yes he even told the girl to send him 5 sexy pictures it very disrespectful what he did. He doesnt know I know about all the messages I found.
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May 16, 2012, 02:55 AM
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Yes when I saw those messages it killed me cause he told me he would never do something to hurt me and he did. And I felt it that he was honest I guess all the guys are the same.
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May 16, 2012, 03:00 AM
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I would never do that to him. At times I want to get even with him but not flirting or anything like that. I want to get revenge for him hurting me.. I don't know what to do
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May 16, 2012, 04:42 AM
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In my opinion... Flirting is a very natural thing that does happen.....But when one asks for sexy pictures or starts talking about sex that in my eyes would be cheating......
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May 16, 2012, 10:24 AM
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I don't know if I would specifically consider it cheating but it certainly does sound like flirting. I think calling another woman beautiful is not a harmful thing but specifically asking them for sexy pictures is completely disrespectful to you. If it bothers you say something. You are in a relationship which should be a two way street of communication.
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May 16, 2012, 08:10 PM
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I consider it cheating. Its very disrespect for me too see all the messages and another girl send him a message sayying if he wanted some sexy pictures of her and he relpy back saying sure and he send her his email address. And im going to comfort him soon im going to show him all those messages and everything.
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May 22, 2012, 02:13 AM
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So I been finding more things that has hurt me even more he's been liking pictures of girls telling them they are soo BEAUTIFUL and at another girl thats showing cleavage he said " I Like" ugh!!!! also liking girls picture where those girls are only wearing an underwear or bra! at one point he comment at a post saying "love you too"!!!!!!!!!!
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May 22, 2012, 11:35 AM
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Clearly, he does not respect you or your feelings (if I KNEW I was doing something that hurt my SO and kept doing it, I would expect him to leave. immediately). Unfortunately, the relationship sounds as if it has disintegrated into something that you are not comfortable with and that is NOT ok. You and your feelings matter.
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May 24, 2012, 04:34 AM
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I havent talk to him about it yet. He doesnt know I have the password to all of his accounts. I'm planning on not get even with him but I am going to make him feel bad very bad about himself on what he did to me. He would always accuse me of cheating on him when CLEARLY I NEVER did nothing to him. I have a feeeling he might be cheating on me. Not just because I saw all the comments he posted on the girls pictures the messages everything. But my heart tells me... |
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May 27, 2012, 04:07 AM
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So I confront him I told him I knew he had been telling other girl's tthey were pretty and to send him sexy pictures and he told me I was dumb that he has never done that. But I havent showed him the messages I have saved on a USB. I just laugh when he tells me that he has never done it. I just pretend like he's telling me the truth. Im just waitting for the perfect moment and show him all the proves I have.
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