what do couples talk about?

Hey.

So i was just wondering what a girllfriend/boyfriend couple would talk about when theyr'e together. I oftan fantasize about having a girlfriend which includes a lot of fake conversations, but they just sound so unrealistic.

I also just want to know for the sake of knowing.

Thanks

Toilet.

everything and anything, the weather, common interests, work, day to day happenings, religion, basicly the sky is the limit

Hi there, well in my experience (I can only speak for myself cuz all relationships are different), my SO was my best friend, so we talked about everything (almost. I mean there are things that you feel may be too just TMI )

In the beginning, usually subjects are more topical, and you probably will do activities together - finding things you have in common and enjoy. You just try to figure out if you even like each other: like being around each other, are on the same page, there is a nice comfort level, conversation is not forced, you have things in common, etc. If certain "criteria" is missing (things that are important to you), then most likely you'll (hopefully, nicely) move on or the friendship will sort of fade away.

If things are a match, and you become SOs, then you as go along, you share more and more. Like Typo said, the sky's the limit! (and you and your SO determine the limit).

*The most important thing for me in any relationship (whether it is "casual" or "serious") is that you build on a solid foundation based in truth and honesty and good communication. That way, as things up come (and esp. if you get to the "serious" part, you can face anything with strength, poise and dignity )

I hope this is a teeny bit helpful

Rose got it. A good bf/gf is one who you can feel comfortable talking to about anything and everything. There is no strict "partner topics," so to speak, meaning there's no set conversations you have with your SO. Conversation should flow naturally, be comfortable, and leave you both smiling.

My boyfriend and I share how our days have been, movies, and how messed up society is, lol...

Imagine what you talk about with your best friend. That's what you should be able to talk about with your girlfriend, one that's really meant for you. You will be able to share interests and even if you have different interests you will be able to talk about them with each other.

If you're with a girl and you feel you can't share yourself with her openly and honestly, she's not the right girl.

well in my many relationsips, we usually talked about sex, old boyfirends, old girlfreinds, movies we like or dont like, computer places facebook, MySpace, PC, religion, food, jokes all kinds of stuff...its nice.

Everything and anything. Once you've been together a while, sometimes it's nice to just be in silence together. You don't have as much to talk about because you know all the basic things about each other and you know what they like to do, etc. It's more about being comfortable with each other. You talk when you want, don't talk when you don't want. You know you are with someone you're meant to be with when silence is perfectly fine. My fiance is huge talker and i am not as much. But, all in all, I feel comfortable talking to him about anything whether it be something i'm worried about,current news, friends, family, and just random things that may come up.

Me and my hubby Miguel talk about everything: what we are doing, who we have encountered etc. we talk about philosophy, religion, politics, money, sex, the past, the future you name it. If I say it, he knows it and vice versa. You are probably not being unrealistic, if she's your girlfriend I suppose she admires what you say and has input to contribute.

My hubs and I do a lot of zombie contingency planning.

anything and everything .. and sometimes nothing at all , we just enjoy being with each other.