[essexgirl]

Hello everyone I always meet up with a friend and help her out. I feel taken for granted. I give her money and its never enough. She's young too. Can u just look at this photo and what's your thoughts when u first see me. . Do I look naïve and gullible.
http://s1182.photobucket.com/albums/x447/angelk01/?action=view&current=utf-8BSU1HMDE0NTEtMjAxMjA2MDItMjMwNC5qcGc.jpg

[shezbut]

No, it wouldn't let me look at you.

But I don't have to look at you to offer my perspective on the situation. When someone takes, takes, and takes more from the relationship ~ and never gives back in some way, you're being used. It's not a friendship. You need to stand up tall and tell her how you are feeling. That may end the relationship right there. But, it's certainly better than allowing her to take more than you're comfortable giving her.

Hugs and best wishes to you!

[essexgirl]

Hello everyone. The photo link I added. If u cannot open it just cut and paste the link into the browser like in the top white box and hit enter. Thanks guys. xxx

Why do you keep posting pictures of yourself, I will not copy and paste it as I keep getting asked to do this, These so called friends are not friends, It is best to break away from them, They are using you and Shez is spot on

[Puffyprue]

i think this situation has nothing to do with the way you look, she took you for granted i think you should talk to her about that, i replied to your thread before and i also read your other post before and its seems you very insecure with the way you look, you should know not everything related to the way you look
do you have therapist? other than your birthmark what else that make you insecure about your look? maybe talk about that here somehow would help you

*hugs

[Leed]

Honey, ANYTHING we say isn't going to matter, because you don't BELIEVE us. We've told you time and time again what we think and it hasn't made a bit of difference. We think you look your age, we think you're pretty, etc. What you NEED is a therapist -- you need someone to build up your self-esteem. You need someone who you WILL believe. And you need someone who will help you stop being taken advantage of -- we can't do that for you. We can give you advise, but if you don't believe us or do what we advise, it doesn't do any good.

We all think you're a GREAT GIRL and want to help you, but it seems we can't hon. So see if you can get some therapy, ok? Much love, Lee

[PsychGirl123]

I hate to be irritable about this, but I really don't feel that your posts are contributing to any helpful conversations here, for anyone.

I don't know if you are posting merely for validation, but after we all keep saying the same things to you, and yet you still feel the need to post here, shouldn't that signal to you that outside validation from strangers isn't what you need?

Please seek the help of a therapist. Best of luck to you.