bisexuality

Your concern is noted, but the guy is 17, not 12. We're not talking about a child here, but a nearly grown adult who has some legitimate questions regarding his sexuality. This is a support forum in which to do so. Suggesting to people that it might not be beneficial to offer our opinions kinda defeats the purpose of the forum, don't ya think?

In the future, if you have specific concerns of this nature, it might be more beneficial to express them to one of the board moderators privately. There's no better way to derail a thread than with off-topic posts.

DocJohn

17 is STILL a minor, you'd better check the laws, one day under age is still a minor and if his parents decided to check his computer for some reason and found he was discussing this topic here and strongly objected, they would be on the phone to the police or their lawyer.

Man, I'm sorry I even bothered wasting my damn time!!! To hell with this crap, I don't need this. As I can't seem to close my account myself someone else will have to do it for me, I'm out of here.

so Long folks, been REAL nice!!

Fine. . . then if you feel that uncomfortable, then it is propbably best that you do find a place you feel comfortable in.
"Just my unwanted 2 cents "

Good luck, wherever you go . . .

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SOLON

I am sorry about haivng that "cat fight" on your post. I really am. Hope things are going well for you and your friend at work. I hope you had a Merry Christmas, and have a Happy new year.

Best wishes,

KRZYKRIS

If you think you have totally gave up, you haven't, because you are here!

Merry Christmas to you to. Sometimes people seem uptight about something but the real reason is hidden, even from themselves. That is why we have to have time to think and search our feelings. Counselors can help with this kind of stuff.

Keep on posting and seeking...

GraceD

Kyle, how strong you are for posting! My own suggestion is that you plan to stay celebate until married... or otherwise promised. You answered some of your own questions... it could be hormones... it could be your own need for a man in your life... I don'tknow you .. maybe your younger life lacked that? It could be many things. Maybe...may I suggest you becoming the best you can be, a real friend to all .. including this other person, and just like many relationships, see where it takes you? Is there an undertone that if the other person finds out who you feel you really are, they won't like you at all? Maybe you don't like who you think you are? Find yourself first, make friends of all kinds along the way... and though it's tough to realize at your age just how long the road is, you have plenty of time. :- )

I just want to lay down and cry sometimes. He's a great guy, probably too good for me. I'm not happy with who I am, or the decisions that I make. I don't know what to do.

Kyle I'll bet you're a great guy too. I think you are a lot more in touch with your feelings and thoughts than many people are, and that is probably why your are so confused. There's a lot to figuring out "who you are" and if you're not confused then you're not paying attention! Like I said before, remember that you are young and have plenty of time to figure it out. Figuring out who you are is part of the journey of life, not something you "answer" today or tomorrow and then move on.

For some reason your image of yourself doesn't match the reality. I hope you can work on that. I believe it is MUCH more important to like yourself and to be comfortable yourself than to find satisfaction in external things. I think you have to like yourself well before you consider whether others like you or not (especially when considering personal relationships).

Hope you keep posting here, and hope you can find some support near you.

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