is this the calm b4 the storm ?

this evening we came up to bed he's watching dvd's and playing a game on his phone and i've fallen asleep (all normal for us) i've woken up about midnight and he's acting odd. He's answering in one word sentences and keeps given me strange looks. So now i'm waiting. . . . . . . what am i waiting for ? . . . . . . . . I just have a feeling i'm gonna get an eruption. That i'm gonna have done something wrong. . . . . . . . . . . It's like sitting and waiting for a storm to hit . . . . . . . . He's put all the lights on in the bedroom, so i guess i'm not supposed to go back to sleep. . . . . . . . Am i just being over sensitive ? . . . . . . . . . . . . Perhaps i just walk on egg shells so much, i'm on constant guard, always expecting the worst. . . . . . . . Isn't it awful that i question whether i could have upset him simply by falling asleep. . . . . . . Touchwood i'm wrong, i'm warn out, tired, painful and going back to sleep

Gosh -- You know, the last several posts you've made have been along these lines. You've been walking on egg shells -- you've been either angry or scared, waiting for him to blow. Why to you continue to liive like this? What are you GETTING from this relationship other than ulcers?

Sweetie, I think it's time for you to evaluate this relationship and decide if it's worth all this. You may "love" him, but are you willing to live like this the rest of your life? And if you are, don't you think you'd better talk to a therapist about it? Cause anyone who WOULD stay in a relationship like this NEEDS to talk to a therapist -- this is definitely a TOXIC relationship. He might have issues of his own, but this is doing YOU no good at all! God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee