[insideout]

there is a guy i am currently interested in IRL and he happens to be a bad boy.
now im a bad girl myself so how can i say this is a bad thing??

the problem is im finding that im completely obsessed with him and he happens to do cocaine. (ive done it with him but i dont want to continue all the time with it)

i dont think he is "available" to be really there for me, and im pretty messed up myself so im not able to give 100% either.

im stuck over this cuz i REALLY want to go take a shower, call him and go out tonight and will return sometime tomorrow.
after a night of who in the world knows.

hes fun, hes cute...
and im no novice...
i know what i like.
i like exciting guys who do whatever the hell they want.

and yet somewhere inside i know i shouldnt.

so how does a bad girl like me with a whole lot of loyalty and love to give, choose between this guy who can probably be my mirror image, and solitude??

[Vibe]

I'd think about what this guy has to offer and what you want. Personally, I'd give him a miss. I know that this kind of guy would probably leave me worse off than I was before we got together.

A lot of it would also depend on just how deep the feelings were, though. He sounds more like fling material than relationship material. So if I was just casually interested and centered enough to keep things that way, then I'd consider it. Would he pressure you to do things you're not comfortable with? Would you need things from him that he can't give? Are you comfortable enough with yourself to say no to things you don't want, mean it, stick by it, and make the tough calls for your own well being when needed?

Think about what the situation would really entail. If it looks like it's going to mess you up, then wait for the next guy. There are certainly more out there.