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Old Oct 09, 2012, 02:05 PM
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I'm so lonely! Just want some love!
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Old Oct 09, 2012, 02:16 PM
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What are you doing to be proactive about the situation? Are you dating? I think if you fill up your life with as much as possible i.e. meeting friends, working hard, maintaining contact with your family, doing voluntary work, visiting sports clubs etc this will also make you feel better. What about meetups and joining social groups? You might not meet someone you're interested in romantically but its a great oppertunity to meet like minded folk and have some fun. Relationships don't always 'solve' the loneliness issue but even so, don't put pressure too much pressure on yourself to find someone - im sure you've plenty of time to experience these sorts of things so just enjoy being young and meeting new people. I hope ive been helpful. All the best.
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Old Oct 09, 2012, 06:33 PM
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Oh my ex just called.. He wants to see me!! He has a gf, but she is far away. Igo crazy when I see him!
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Old Oct 10, 2012, 11:41 AM
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Maybe he will come back to you, you could always hope right? Can you try and fix things?
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Old Oct 10, 2012, 07:22 PM
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Thank you Scotty, but unfortunately I think its just a bootie call. I am conflicted about it. Last time wasn't so great because thats all we did. I just wish he loved me too. I don't really think anyone is going to love me. So he is the closest I will probably get. Even if he only wants a few hours in bed, at least I will be loved and comforted for that time. Sorry if this is too much.
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Old Oct 11, 2012, 09:05 AM
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You're worth alot more than a few hours in bed. I believe everybody finds love and will be loved at some point in their life it's just a matter of when that's all. You can't make him love you that's up to him so you can wait for him to come around or move forward..
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Old Oct 11, 2012, 09:20 AM
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Thank you Scotty, but unfortunately I think its just a bootie call. I am conflicted about it. Last time wasn't so great because thats all we did. I just wish he loved me too. I don't really think anyone is going to love me. So he is the closest I will probably get. Even if he only wants a few hours in bed, at least I will be loved and comforted for that time. Sorry if this is too much.
If you can make yourself dont say yes every time he calls for that. Say no sometimes....especially considering he has a girlfriend. You dont want to end up in limbo or treated like a yoyo, i know what that feels like.

And talk to him about how he feels so you know where your relationship with him stands.

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Old Oct 11, 2012, 02:31 PM
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Thanks but I always hoped to be worth something and reality is im not..so pretending I will be loved fofor who I am is stupid. Im lucky someone puts up with me for a while.
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Old Oct 11, 2012, 02:34 PM
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Thanks but I always hoped to be worth something and reality is im not..so pretending I will be loved fofor who I am is stupid. Im lucky someone puts up with me for a while.
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Old Oct 11, 2012, 06:09 PM
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Wow I just saw the hugs..that is so nice. It means a lot that you care even though you don't know me.
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