[f0rever-unhappy]

I thought I liked this guy like I really did I was attracted to him and I felt like I fell for him and today we hung out and I'm starting to become not as into him anymore... The more we hang out the more things I see that I don't like about him or more not interested I become. It felt so real like I really really felt something for him why do I all of a sudden not? We messed around today and he kept licking me and little little things keep bothering me about him like the way he kisses and small stuff like that. Idk he kind of turned me off but it seems like its getting serious too fast i met hus family and we always hang out.....hes kind of too clingy and idk just... i dont think i want to do this anymore, but i dont want to end up regretting ending things or hurt him but now I feel like I want to end our fling... But I don't want to do that exactly.... HELP SOS I AM HONESTLY STUCK

[perseverance11]

Originally Posted by f0rever-unhappy

I thought I liked this guy like I really did I was attracted to him and I felt like I fell for him and today we hung out and I'm starting to become not as into him anymore... The more we hang out the more things I see that I don't like about him or more not interested I become. It felt so real like I really really felt something for him why do I all of a sudden not? We messed around today and he kept licking me and little little things keep bothering me about him like the way he kisses and small stuff like that. Idk he kind of turned me off but it seems like its getting serious too fast i met hus family and we always hang out.....hes kind of too clingy and idk just... i dont think i want to do this anymore, but i dont want to end up regretting ending things or hurt him but now I feel like I want to end our fling... But I don't want to do that exactly.... HELP SOS I AM HONESTLY STUCK

Hello f0rever-unhappy,

You seem to be confused about your relationship with your botfriend, is that right?

You havn't feelings for him anymore?
You are not seeing yourself in him anymore?

Maybe some time and then talk will help you both.
Write on a paper what you want to ask him and then say it.

Did I understand your message?

[Leed]

It sounds like he's taking things too fast for you. The way I see it is you'd rather he slow things down, until you can decide whether you really like him that much or not.

Why not sit him down, and tell him he's going too fast, and you want to take thiings slowly. Tell him that in past relationships, you always went too fast, and it ended up disastrous so this time you want to go slow so that you can be SURE of your feelings. He should be able to understand that. If he can't then he's not for you. I would think that HE would want to slow things down too, before both of you get too serious and it ends in a nasty breakup.

So just talk to him -- he should understand. I hope.

God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee