[a fighter]

*ok this is kind of embarrassing* there's this math teacher and he's really hot but married and today, we were having a test and he was the supervisor and it was basically the first time I've ever seen him since I'm not in his class. He talked to me a few times, at some point i thought he was looking at me too and in the end, as i was about to live he grabbed my waist. I, naturally, got turned on :$ I've been having all this fantasies the hole day and now I'm seriously thinking of taking his class and ask him to help me a bit more after the classes are over (i do suck at math) so that i can get closer. Do i sound like a slut? Because trust me, this is sooo not me :/ Anyway, do you find this perverted? try to be honest in a non-mean way if you can. thanks!

A Fighter,

I have found in situations such as these, the best advice is...

"Mum's the word!",

-Fleeing Bellocq

[lynn P.]

Its natural to have teacher crushes since you're young and not married. Important though not to go any further, even with flirting. Think of his wife and perhaps children - imagine being a wife with all these attractive eager young women. I don't know if this is high school but he could get into serious trouble if this went anywhere. I'm surprised he touched your waist since most schools has a no touching rule. You're not a pervert for having feelings but don't go any further

[IceCreamKid]

Teachers, male or female, who have inappropriate interactions with students should be kicked out of the profession and never allowed back in. I realize there are students who think they can handle the attentions of an adult, but this is where the adult should be responsible and redirect the student to what he or she really needs. What you need is more attention to your studies: English as well as math, and zero attention to whether your instructors are "hot" or not. If you continue to find yourself dwelling on sexual possibilities with your teachers, please tell your parents so that they may help you find appropriate outlets for your excess energies.

I agree with the others in that its your studies you should be focusing on - you don't have any chance with this man and its for a good reason. Adults were not meant to have relationships with children. This man probably has a wife and family and if you were to be involved with him you would be hurting yourself as well as them. Please find a more appropriate outlet for your feelings. You don't say in what manner he touched you but lynn is right in that most schools have a no touching policy - if you feel he was being suggestive i would report his behaviour. You have a right to feel safe in school. I hope this situation improves for you.

I don't know how old he is or you for that matter. It's human nature to be attracted to others, and, believe it or not, it wasn't considered "wrong" for teachers and students to date at one time. A math teacher in my school back in the 80's regularly dated his students and ended up marrying one. Of, course, these days, that would not be permitted.

[layla11]

Hi, no I dont think your a slut or perverted, but I would end this now and show this man your morals. I know he has already started something, but it will end really bad. He probably knows that your attracted to him and wants to take advantage of that, for sex. Since he is older, he knows better. I hate to say this but it kinda sounds like you are being manipulated by him. Have you already made your mind up that you are going to do this?
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