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Nov 04, 2012, 01:14 PM
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i was going through various threads on this forum and i just realized that i came across several posts in which women have mentioned their fear about being needy..being a needy wife/gf to their husband/bf
 i cant stop thinking that no matter how much we grow old..women will always stay the same in this aspect! we all want men to care for us and to be there when we need them regardless how many times we need them and we want them to reassure us that they 'll love us no matter what! we try to hold back due to fear of losing the guy that our needy nature might scare him away...when in reality he is ALL we think about every day!! we want to love them with all we have.....but feel scared of rejection!  may we all become happy and find perfect partners. and may all the men be happy too. |
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Nov 04, 2012, 06:18 PM
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Pretty pitiful, isn't it? That rarely do we feel secure enough in our relationships that we don't feel "needy?"
Is it our fault, or the men's fault? I really don't know. Are we born too needy or do we get that way by not having our needs met? Do men assume that our needs are being met just by being with us? Do they assume this because WE don't say anything? Lots of questions.
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Nov 06, 2012, 03:31 PM
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I can't speak to the idea that all women are needy or feel the same way, I'm not one But I can say that for a lot of men, including myself if I don't keep myself in check, we tend to be oblivious at times to the needs of females in general. Some men are better than others. I think this is an ongoing battle between the sexes! Books have been written on the differences between men and women... many many books trying to figure it out. |
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