[Ones44]

My parents are freaking annoying me to hell recently. I don't like them much anyways... but I hate them more now. Firstly, they decided to go to church during hurricane sandy! WTF! Didn't they know how dangerous that storm was? And of course I had to go too... On the way they decided to stop at the gas station and had me go out and fuel up the car... Two reasons why that annoys me: #1, I was in the back seat of a two door car, which meant that it wasn't easy for me to get out. #2. We were in a freaking hurricane and I was the only one without a coat, and they knew that.... WTF is up with that? It is because my dad is an ***. And guess what, my iPod happened to get permanently damaged from that incident... dammit...
I am so tired of this. I can't wait until I get to get the hell away from these jerks. I hate everything about them. My dad is so obsessed with domination and controlling me... I try very hard not to just cuss him out... only because he isn't worth it and because he still has control over the 15,000 in my college fund(which is only enough for a semester or two if FAFSA gives me as much as I think they will.) God, I hate them.
Just now, they wanted me to watch another StarTrek episode with them, and I decided that I didn't want to and left. So they interrogated me and etc. tried to make themselves look like the victims... and of course my father gave his normal luddite questions, "how much time do you spend on your tech. I bet you spent all day on the tech. why can't you spend some time with us..." blah, blah, blah... Why can't they realize for once that maybe my actions aren't caused by lack of sleep or technology and that maybe I have the ability to think on my own. ugh.../ Oh, and then my mom came and was all like, "have we done something to offend you, do you hate us... why won't you do whatever..." blah blah blah... And she says it ans a pseudo-sobbing manipulative voice too! F*** THEM! I don't need their crap. I don't care anymore. They only make me want to die... Why can't they just leave me alone? I don't need them and I don't want them! What have they ever really done for me anyways! Nothing good...

[sesame]

1. Did you tell them that you didn't want to go to church with them? If so, what did they say?

2. Did you tell them that it would be easier for them to fuel up the car as they were in the front seat? If so, what did they say?

If you didn't mention these things, what do you think would happen if you did?

What did you say when your mother asked what you were upset about? Personally, I think you would benefit from discussing it with them, and tell the truth. Not the harsh "I can't stand either of you" kind of thing, but perhaps say that you feel as though you want more independence and get frustrated over feeling restricted. If they care enough to ask, they care enough to listen.

[Ones44]

I made sure to tell them that going out in the hurricane was crazy... And I definitely told them it would be easier if one of them fueled up the car... And it happened because my dad was angry because I didn't fill up the car when I used the car earlier that week(I meant too, I just forgot) and he thought it was a great way to teach me a lesson. He complains all the time about not being able to control me and complains about me being controlling(at best he is being hypocritical.) I guess he thinks I can't hear him. He is an a**hole. Its stupid bio-political domination that he cares about, not me.
My mom phrased everything in a pseudo-statement way... I told her to stop and that was all. They don't care what I think unless it is what they want, they never listen to me.

[cat333]

You are not worthless and you do not deserve to be treated poorly by your parents! I have parents who despise me and treat me inferior to everyone else...even strangers. I just stay away from them as much as possible. I know that is disrespectful in some people's eyes, but for me it is survival. I do know that forgiving others is not for them, but it is for those of us who have been hurt. When we forgive, they have to live with themselves, but we can have peace in spite of how they treat us. We will always have scars, but we no longer have to bleed.