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Dec 14, 2012, 04:46 AM
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forgive me if i say too much right now...because im feeling overwhelmed by my family's negative remarks about me. I AM GOING TO MARRY THE GUY OF THEIR CHOICE!!! so cant they give me a break!!! no matter what my fiance says..(wrng things) ..he's quite demanding!!!my family blames everything on me if things dwindle between me n my family!!!!! im sooooooooo stressed at the moment that im planning to take a day off tomorrow so that it will become a long weekend (sat and sunday) and doze off on sleeping pills overdose!!!! i truuuuuly believe that nobody cares about me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and no matter what my fiance and my family say,im not being NEGATIVE!!!!!!!! they tell me to not act like a psycho...but the fact that they 'think' im being psycho MAKES me angry and miserable instead!
the guy i love..has left me for good because my family is marrying me off to another guy. i want to stay in contact with my love, but he just pushes my away. he wants to end contact with me! well, many of u might think that he;s doing the right thing...but how can someone be sooooo RATIONAL in loving and then leaving someone!!!!!!!  i really dont get it!!!!!!!!!! how could he ever have loved me if my absence means nothing to him!!!!!!!! i dont know what to do. may be i'll sulk n rot n then take overdose......or may be i wont n then get up and get more hurt.......... i dunno. |
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Dec 14, 2012, 08:27 AM
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I don't know what country you live in but in the USA you don't have to marry anyone you don't want to!!!
Where do you live? Do you REALLY HAVE to marry this guy that you don't love? Why can't you just REFUSE to marry this guy? What would your parents do to you if you refused? Can you move out of your parents home? How old are you? Can you live with friends instead of your parents home? PLEASE do NOT TAKE SLEEPING PILLS. This is not worth overdosing over! There must be some other solution that this. TALK to your parents and tell them you don't love this guy and you don't WANT to marry him. Tell them you don't want a life of unhappiness. Tell them you want to marry someone that you LOVE. Stand up for yourself, if you can. But please don't harm yourself. We care about you! Take care of yourself, okay? Hugs, Lee
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