[bnybny]

Been married 10 years, 3 kids, one on the way. My husband once got so drunk he began telling me all his relationship details from his past. He mentioned a woman he liked a lot & I tuned him out chalking it up to a drunk rant. But he just joined Facebook & I saw her name on our history page so I went to her site. She works as a waitress at a restaurant HE SUGGESTED we go to for our 10th Anniversary in less than a week! What the **** is he thinking?

Infuriating I know. Hopefully you can get it out of his system! Sorry all this stress is especially hurtful when your pregnant. I have had similar woes myself and I'm still married....but he has cleaned up his act. Curiosity killed the cat, and you can call me Curiosity my friend. (perhaps he wants to show you off to his old flame? maybe he want to flaunt you and your family to the likes of his old friends? this is the only acceptable alibi in my book. one can hope)

[Leed]

Since he only "suggested" that restaurant, why don't YOU "suggest" another one and see what he says? If he gets all upset and nuts about it, that might tell you something. I'd sure like to know why he'd want to go there, after he talked about her in his drunken state and now all of a sudden you find she works at that restaurant! Hmm Yeah, I'd definitely suggest going to another one. LOL

Then if he DOES make an issue out of it, he'll have to tell you WHY. Of course you have ammo that he probably doesn't realize he told you about. LOL

I'm not advocating starting trouble, but it DOES sound a little fishy. There might not be anything to it at all. I hope you have a really nice 10th celebration. God bless and please take care! Hugs, Lee