[unstablemind8]

So my friend met this new guy. I hung out a few times with him. I had a crush on him at first. Well, people get crushes all the time but you just forget about them after a few days. Well, they are now dating and I can't get over the fact that I still like him. He asked me once if I liked him but I denied it. I stay up late at night thinking about him. I get so anxious over it because I don't want to tell my friend I love her boyfriend. I have no clue what to do and I have no one to talk to it about so I brought my problem here. If anyone can, please tell me what to do!

[Onecoldday]

Well I can say that which is more important to you your friend or the guy. I know that if he asked you if you liked him while he was dating your friend that's kind of a red flag because that means that either he really is interested in you, Or he is just a guy who gets around. None the less I would say for you judge the whole situation as such, think about what life would be like without your friend because you may lose her if you go forward.

The age that you are, you can surely have your cake and eat it too. They are not serious at all, no kids etc. why not? Friends are a dime a dozen at your age, perhaps you could distract her with some other guy she could get interested in? This situation seems highly in your favor, in such an uncommitted relationship, every woman for herself. Life is too short.

[lynn P.]

IMO you have to know a person well before you're "in love." You might be feeling physically attracted. Personally I don't advocate taking anyones partner, especially if its your friend. I'm not dissing Lightbulb's post though.

I was in a 'winging it' mood lol....sorry if caution to the wind is a little too risque, I picked a side and I ran with it lol sorry