[LolaLove]

I've been w/ my bf for a year and a few months but my ex always pops up somehow and I have a habit of going to him when me and my current bf are having problems. My ex stilll has feelings for me and I am absolutely confused I feel like I'm torn between the two... I have no clue what to do

[l6886l]

I'm no psychologist, but it sounds like you may still have feelings for the ex as well? If so, I think you need to make a choice. Don't get involved with your ex while you are still with your bf. It's not fair to him or you. Having a divided heart will make you crazy and this is not good for you physically, mentally or emtionally. Going to someone of the opposite sex when you are in a relationship is always very risky as it's easy to get emotionally attached to someone who is sympathetic to your situation, especially if they have feelings for you. Since you two have a history together, this makes it even worse.

Better to talk to a girlfriend or post things here. You gotta protect your heart!

[Leed]

I agree with the previous poster. In fact, I don't think you're ready for a relationship at all. I think you're on the rebound from breaking up with your ex, and you shouldn't have gotten involved with your current bf.

You need to take a break from any/all relationships, and just chill for awhile. Go out with your girlfriends, and stay away from relationships and getting too involved. Wait until you're completely over your ex. There was a reason you and your ex broke up, so I wouldn't think it would be good to get back with him either.

Best of luck, and take care. God bless. Hugs, Lee

[LolaLove]

Originally Posted by Leed

I agree with the previous poster. In fact, I don't think you're ready for a relationship at all. I think you're on the rebound from breaking up with your ex, and you shouldn't have gotten involved with your current bf.

You need to take a break from any/all relationships, and just chill for awhile. Go out with your girlfriends, and stay away from relationships and getting too involved. Wait until you're completely over your ex. There was a reason you and your ex broke up, so I wouldn't think it would be good to get back with him either.

Best of luck, and take care. God bless. Hugs, Lee

Me and the ex haven't been together in about 2-3 years... relationship wise -so /i don't think it's rebound (it could be) but I don't think so. We've always been overly close friends and always talk about getting back together but the timing is always off and someone- usually me, ends up in a relationship and we stop talking for a while and then get close all over again... Me and my current have issues constantly and I reach out to other people but mainly that one in particular..... even in my past relationships I've reached out to that particular ex....it's like a cycle I always go through and can't get away from--- idk If that all made sense it's complicated