Need Support

I could really use some support. So, a while back, I posted about how concerned I was about my mom. She would be acting fine, and then all of a sudden she would go off and start screaming, attacking me. Well, she's been fine for months, and then she went right back to screaming today. I just don't understand it. I've tried to reach out to some local orgs. for help. No one wants to do anything since she acts fine most of the time. I'm her full time caretaker, and I'm all alone. I don't have any support from anyone.

What do I do? She is only in her 50s. She doesn't qualify for any help. I'm really worried that she is showing signs of dementia. Is it too early for that given her age? How do I handle this? She's been screaming all day how she wishes I was dead, and how much she hates me. Some of the things she says don't make any sense. She is talking to herself. I've sacrificed so much of my life to take care of her that I just don't know what to do at this point.

oops, posted this twice, sorry

It can take years for dementia to fully kick in, and show all symptoms. Have you tried taking your mom to the doctor, to see if she/he might be able to help in some way? While she isn't old enough for AARP to kick in, doctors have been educated in recognizing signs of dementia and finding techniques that work for different people.

There are different causes for dementia, finding the proper cause would be very helpful. So, I'd definitely recommend taking her to her doctor. Some cases first cause emotional outbursts; then comes a loss of speech; I can't recall which one that is...I want to say Parkinson's. ?? Check out the link that I copied. Hopefully, that can/will help you!

http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j...mvrd3WYC1jmkZw

Very best wishes to you and your mom!

I had a friend who's mother reacted the same way for a while in her mid 50's. The only solution we were able to find would be to call the non-emergency hotline for the police when in the same room as her while she is behaving that way. If they overhear her actions it may be enough to have an officer come to escort her to the emergency room. Especially if you stress that she is attacking you. Make sure to be clear you dont want to press charges but that you need help getting her help