[lostangel]

i am with someone now for 5 years and i just had a surgary done. but for some reason i just do not want to be with him or want him to touch me or instread in sex. why. why do i feel like this and why do i have the blues. could it be him. i do love him but at the same time sick of him.

[Rhapsody]

((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS )))))))

We women are emotional creatures and everything effects everything else in our lives and in our need / desire for SEX.... hang in there and do not be so hard on your self, for you are going through many changes right now and being sexual just isn't high on your list.

Maybe try to cuddle with the one you love and just feel the safety in the touch of each others flesh, side by side. I love to have my husband close to me, rather we are being sexual or not.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -

[EJ711]

Lost Angel,

Maybe it's a good time to move on. Listen to your feelings.

Here I sit in a 33-yr. old marriage, and am very unhappy right this moment. I guess I thought things would get better, but right now it's like my husband is slipping back instead of moving forward emotionally, or in ways that would improve our relationship.

Hugs,

EJ

[lostangel]

Thanks guys. I do not want to leave just not too happy. But I hope things get better for you ej711 i am here if you need to talk. i know it is hard wondering what happen or why.