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Old Jul 08, 2006, 05:28 PM
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I don't deserve my hubby! I'm just making things harder! I just hate myself!

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Old Jul 08, 2006, 05:40 PM
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(((((((((Nina))))))))))

Don't be silly. You deserve everything you have that is good. You're wonderful.

Everyone has bad days, this is just a bump in the road, honest!

I'm sure even if your husband might be upset, that he understands you didn't mean anything you said/did.

Take care of yourself. I just hate myself!

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Old Jul 08, 2006, 06:13 PM
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please take care
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Old Jul 08, 2006, 06:23 PM
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I don't know who I am anymore! Way too much going on for far too long! I'm lost!
I've just been crying hard! I guess now was the time for the bubble to burst... Been long since I cried like this...

Thank you, Christina, Katheryn and therealme!
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Old Jul 08, 2006, 07:59 PM
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nina.....let all the tears out...they have been a long time coming......then take a deep breath and take a good look at your life......you nina are a strong woman,a good wife and mother.....a true friend to many......we both have ocd...we know what it does to our minds......but nina sweet woman....don't complicate your life....look at the people around you who really need you and love you.....rely on them.....they are the ones who will be with you when all the others leave....i'll always be here nina....
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Old Jul 09, 2006, 12:14 AM
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Nina, that's not true! You're a wonderful, loving woman! Maybe you made some choices that weren't very wise, but you don't need to beat yourself up. THAT is what makes it harder, Hon. There are times in our lives that we just need to do something for OURSELVES.

Please! Don't beat yourself up! I just hate myself!
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Old Jul 09, 2006, 12:51 AM
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Nina,

I totally agree you deserve Joel. He is a strong, kind man, just the kind you need right now.

Crying is a safety valve for letting our emotions out. You can call and cry in my ear if you need to.

Sometimes life is just a bit overwhelming.

Love,

Jane
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Old Jul 09, 2006, 06:26 AM
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what Jane said I just hate myself!

are therealme and katheryn the same person?
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Old Jul 09, 2006, 06:39 AM
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Katheryn+therealme=wife+hubby

Thank you all for your supportive words... I find life very hard to live right now!
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Old Jul 09, 2006, 10:01 AM
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poetrylover, hey, sorry it's soooo hard right now. i hope you can hear what folks here have to say. you are a fine good woman who deserves her fine good man. keep breathing. shove a positive thought (or a piece of dark chocoalate) in.
it shifts. hang in there.
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Old Jul 09, 2006, 11:29 AM
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I just hate myself! What am I? Chopped liver? LOL I just hate myself! I just hate myself!
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Old Jul 09, 2006, 10:12 PM
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HATE is a very strong word. You love yourself as you love others. You just can't see that all the time.... Love yourself as others love you.... you and your husband have weathered many storms and will continue to do so in the future........
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Old Jul 09, 2006, 11:03 PM
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I know how easy it is to put yourself down. I do it a lot, and I've been doing it a lot lately. I can't give you a lot of advice, because I know it's hard as an addiction to change, but if you can find the power within yourself, change it. You're a good person, no matter how many people want you to think you're not. There will always be people who will try to make you feel bad about yourself, so it's up to you to make sure you're not one of them.
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Old Jul 10, 2006, 11:03 AM
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Nina, look to your music to help you.
The answer will be there...it always is for me.
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Old Jul 10, 2006, 11:41 AM
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So sorry you feel that way. You deserve more then you think.
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Old Jul 10, 2006, 02:47 PM
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Thanks all of you, who have replied to my post!
I try as best as I can in life... it's just never enough...

I don't want any more replies in this thread... I feel like I'm whining... Maybe I shouldn't have written it in the first place.

((((((((((((((( To all of you ))))))))))))))

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