[thunderbear]

Its been awhile since Ive been on PC. So alot has happened in the past 2 years. I posted about my brother n law Nathen & his gf. They are still together. They moved to another city so now I dont have to put up with her stalker behaviour. But now she has my husbanss whole family turned against us. By lying to my in-laws. Shes got it in their head that me & my husband are trying to break her & Nathen up. Idk why she would think that. We havent seen either of them in months. She dont "allow" it. About 1 1/2 months ago, her 17 year old son broke down the door to their house and beat Nathen in the head with a big wrench. We didnt know why till my niece texted me tellin me the gf had attcked my bro n law a few days before. Apperently she just came out of the bathroom & went crazy. She punched him, slapped him & spit in his face. While she was straddling him he pushed her face away from his & she ended up with a scratch on her face. She called her son that night & had him go up there and beat up Nathen. Evidently this woman beats my beo n law all the time. My niece has seen it all & shes very upset by it. The gf wont let his kids around him anymore so they havent seen their dad or us in a month or so. Bro in law tried to leave her last week but she threatened to kill herself. Now, I know its not very productive, but I told her if she wanted to hit someone bring it to my house (I know my bro n law isnt going to hit her & so does she. Thats why she hits him). Well when I told her that she told my husbands mom/grandma. Now they refuse to talk to me. Nicely anyway. This has my stress level thru the roof. Im so mad at this woman. I hate being mad. I dont like the way anger feels. But I cant help it. No one but my husband, me & my niece knows the way she really is. Shes dangerous.

[Leed]

Oh boy -- family troubles are horrible. It sounds to me that it's NATHAN'S job to do something about this, not yours, your nieces's or anyone else's. Nathan has got to put a stop to this! He's either got to get an order of protection against this woman, call the police on her for aggravated assault, kick her out, or whatever! But this can't keep going on or someone is going to end up DEAD. But like I said, it's Nathan's job.

If I were you, I'd just stay out of it completely. If mother-in-law says anything, I'd just tell her "I have nothing to do with it." And hang up the phone.

Getting involved in family problems only brings more problems than you want. So just let THEM deal with it, and wish them luck. lol God bless. Hugs, Lee

[thunderbear]

Thanks Leed....I have stepped away from it. Thatsse the problem now. My mother in law is mad at me because I wont have anything to do with the gf. I dont talk to her. Or Nathen. Too much drama for me. And after what she did to my husband I dont feel like I can trust her. But I cant get my mom in law to understand that. Me & her got into an argument over it a month or so ago. I hate arguing with anyone but especially her. She & I were really close. But she chose not to talk to me because I wont have anything to do with the gf. I barely know this girl for one thing. For another, Ive seen what her lies have done to my husband & I already & I dont want no part of a person like that. But, of course, the gf has her own story about me & they are believing it. So really theres nothing I can do anyway.

[Leed]

Well, mother in law will SOON find out what that girl is all about, and they won't believe her in time. People like her don't last long. Those lies get found out sooner or later. So i wouldn't worry about it.

If mother in law contacts you again, just tell her to keep on eye on that girl. Tell her that she'll "soon find out" that YOU are right and let it go at that. Then maybe she'll keep her eyes open. Maybe she won't too, but she can't say you didn't warn her! Lots of luck, hon. Hugs, Lee