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Jul 30, 2006, 02:43 AM
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I logged on to Yahoo IM to get a picture off a profile I never use any more. Offline messages pop up and the ex-b/f that dumped me for the stripper back in March 2002 IMd me on Yahoo in mid 2005. He said he misses me.
Gag!
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Jul 30, 2006, 03:52 AM
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This is the guy who dumped me after an old stripper friend showed back up, the guy who was addicted to Internet porn, the guy who pirated video games and sold them, and the guy who always acted like a little boy who thought girls had cooties after sex "Ewwwwww, icky."
I do NOT miss him in the least.
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Jul 30, 2006, 02:31 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
I do NOT miss him in the least. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I hope you told him so and that you would appreciate it if he'd take a flying leap! LOL
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Jul 30, 2006, 03:18 PM
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Nah. I just told him I didn't get his messages because I abandoned that account years ago, and if he wanted to contact me he could do it through my new screen name.
I figured I'd give him the chance to crawl on the ground like the low life he was/is and apologize profusely for dumping me so unceremoniously after gushing about what a great and accepting person I was. <puke> It's been a year since that last message. Who knows what he's up to now? He still lives in Wisconsin though. Another of his excuses for wanting his freedom was that he was planning on moving back to Chicago and working for his company down there, so we'd have to break up eventually anyway. There's no way I'd even give him a chance again. I always felt like I was on a rotisserie spit with him - 5 minutes of foreplay, 5 minutes in this direction, 5 minutes in that direction, hearing "icky, messy" and then watching him wander off to the office to finish himself off with computer porn. ***.
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Jul 30, 2006, 04:07 PM
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Eeeew Wi, he doesn't sound like someone I'd want to keep in touch with at all, but especially after the way he treated you and his er, "hang ups"! I think you are very well rid of him!
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Jul 30, 2006, 04:59 PM
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EEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!! I wouldn't have given him my new screen name! GROSS! The sooner forgotten, the better!!
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Jul 30, 2006, 05:14 PM
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Yeah, I know, I shouldn't have given him the new name, but I'm smirking over the fact that he says he misses me. Guess the skanky, sore-infested stripper with the inflate-a-boobs and pierced tongue wasn't all he thought she'd be cracked up to be. She was allergic to the stage cleaner, so she had open, weeping sores all over her body. She went and got a replica of a tattoo that he designed and told the tattoo artist to NOT replicate on anyone. He insisted that he had "no idea she was going to do that." Yeah, right. It was right in the guy's portfolio "Do not copy." I was there when he had it done. Her husband was set to get a $4 million settlement after being disabled in a motorcycle/semi accident, so I can just about guarantee he was hoping if he offered her shelter that he'd get some financial gain out of it, even though she insisted she wouldn't take any of the money.
It's been a year since that last message, so the odds are fairly high that he won't reply.
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Jul 30, 2006, 05:23 PM
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ew....
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Jul 30, 2006, 08:05 PM
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this is a straight to video movie.......
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Jul 30, 2006, 08:06 PM
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Hi, Wi...back from being offline for a week and moving, I found your post about this man perplexing (and familiar)....I have been in similar relationships with low-lifes and con artists. In my intelligent mind, I say I would not respond if one of them contacted me, but in my vulnerability, I would probably do the same as you. Why is it that we intelligent women do such things? Is it a self-esteem issue, romantic notions, loneliness? (Personally NOT lonely here, though I do sometimes wish for a loving partner.)
What are your thoughts on this? Patty |
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Jul 30, 2006, 08:17 PM
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oh dear!
he sounds like such a plonker! you deserve much better than that! |
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Aug 02, 2006, 07:25 AM
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Awwww, you gals don't know a great guy when you hear one!
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Aug 02, 2006, 07:36 AM
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hahahahaha, Maven.
I told my daughter that he PMd me and she goes "You should have told him "Go to hell, you greasy son of a beep."  He had bad hygiene habits. He got really smelly and greasy at his job in a plastics factory yet only showered every 3 days or so. He didn't start out that way, but figured he could ease off on daily showers once he had me hooked. If I asked if he was going to shower on any give day, his answer was "are we going to have sex if I do?" Uhhhhhh, not necessarily, but it will definitely increase the likelihood.  Guess his next girlfriend eventually got tired of the stinkiness, aversion to sex with a real live person, the constant video gaming, and illegal downloading/copying and selling of video games, too, not to mention having to be a non-stop chaperone to his parents on the yearly trip to Mexico because his mom can't stand being alone with his dad. Yeah, I reallllly want to get back together with this guy. NOT!
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Aug 03, 2006, 03:56 PM
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ewwwww gross........ glad you ventured away from him
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Aug 03, 2006, 05:05 PM
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This dude sounds like a leach to me.
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