Really Disturbing Accusations.

My mom accused me and her husband, my step father for the last 8 years, of sleeping with each other, all because I took him to the store to get groceries. She's really hurt me this time, it's over between her and I for good. I turned the ringer off on my phone just so I won't talk to her. Really hurt by this.

Wow what a horrible accusation! I'm so sorry you're going through that, it sounds like your mother is just extremely paranoid. wow!

That's just so horrible! I don't blame you for being really upset. What a mean thing to say!

(((((((((((((( desirae ))))))))))))))

Desirae, that must feel similar to how I felt when the grandmother called me a *****!

Try to remember, though, that your mother is telling you something about HERSELF and not you, ok?

I don't blame you for not wanting to talk to her in the least! I wouldn't either.

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oh good lord, Desirae... what an awful thing to say to one's daughter. I'm sorry she said something so paranoid and insensitive. I can't imagine how insulted you must feel.

Well, you do know that she's not exactly thinking straight these days, so hopefully you can take it with a grain of salt, however small?

(((((((((((((( desirae ))))))))))))))

Des, you know the truth and remember she is a very sick woman, try to look past this I'm not saying to forgive but try to look to the future
Love
Angie

Thanks you guys. I feel kind of as though I had been violated, it's a strange feeling, it's funny how she's manipulating this entire thing by ignoring me and acting though I'm in the wrong.....I'm so mad about that. I want to write her a letter, call her, go over to her house and tell her off, but hell, I think it's really done between her and I this time. Of course she will be calling when she needs something, but I won't be answering. I just wish my step dad would grow some balls and defend me, instead he whimpers in the corner like a little b word. He's lost all dignity, he's desperate and puts up with my mom because he has no where else to go....but damn, this is me!.....He should defend me, I've been more a daughter to him then his own blood, I've known him since I was 12! I hope somebody sticks up for me, so far my sister did nothing, and of course my husband did nothing.

Maybe no one is doing anything because they consider the source that it's coming from. Your mom has major issues, and someone that is that erractic and doing drugs cannot be reasoned with. You know the truth, anyone that knows you knows it. It would be nice that they show you some support, maybe just by way of saying..."Look at the source this is coming from, she's not right...please take it for what's it is worth." which is-nadda!!!!! I know she's your mom, and mom's can do numbers on us when they go astray, but you also know who you are...don't let this get into you!!!!