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Old Jul 03, 2013, 04:26 AM
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im feeling very irritated today i think i have to much going on but its nothing for me lol, hubby is of to the dentist in a min i have to drive him there, that's fine but he hates the dentist so hes not coping well though he try's to pretend he is, youngest daughter is excited about nearly getting her first flat but shes constantly talking about things she needs or has to do, second eldest daughter is 352 miles away and trying to sort out stuff to do with our little man but communicating via fb so just putting washing out and having breakfast is stressful
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Old Jul 03, 2013, 04:41 AM
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Sadly you've fallen into what all too easily becomes a wife's & mother's lot in life. You've been such a successful caregiver to others--but you haven't reserved any time for self-care. Now you're feeling ... what? That you've failed yourself? That your family has moved on without you?
Whatever ... It's time to reclaim your life. If you don't have a good support network, I'd really suggest a good therapist. This forum ought to giver you some pointers and coping skills as well.
Keep coming back & keep posting. You've got a good handle on the problem, not look for ways of approaching it.
You can make this lots better.
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Old Jul 03, 2013, 05:54 AM
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Let your hair down girl
Do something that makes you feel young and irresponsible again... take some time out!
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Old Jul 03, 2013, 01:57 PM
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feel like i will need to let my hair down , daughter got the flat so shes hoping to be moved by Saturday eve i will enjoy the peace from her once shes settled but till then its going to be constant, still got son home hes hoping to be moving into a bigger bedroom but i got to slow him down want to clean each room while its empty then we will downsize to the smaller double he can go into the bigger room i then get a spare room to put allmy craft stuff in and for guests
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