[iffylivy]

lately, I feel like I either need space from my boyfriend or I want nothing to do with him. There will be these times where he takes my hand and puts it on his lap then on his neck and then on his shoulder,all within a minute and i feel like its driving me crazy like. Like i want to be like, "pick a spot already, do you want my hand here or there," then during the same day I'm all over him, like touching his hair or arms and the back of his neck. Now the confusing part in starting to also feel rebelious, like "i don't care what he says and do whatever i want" mood. Does anybody understand this craziness?

[iffylivy]

I also guess that a couple of times he's had this mutual friend of ours over, whose a girl, and my boyfriend and I have this weird thing. We or don't have time for eachother, because he's tired from work or goes to the gym and I mostly work on the weekend(not that we can't hangout before work anyway). But coming from the person, who seems to be very sensitive to the topic of us not spending alot of time with eacother, can seem to find the energy or time to hang with other people. Also I may just be over reacting but, bringing an old high school friend right after work to your girlfriends work place to have dinner,together and not even say this is my gf so and son but only be introduced as so and so, and pay for dinner. Maybe the pay for dinner parts whatever, but everything just seems weird. Also its like he feels comfortable talking about his issues or she seems to know everything first before me about issues, or just facts about him that he hasn't even told me about yet. It's starting to feel a little lonely and something just doesn't feel right.

[RoseBee]

The touching issue: You are irritated because you want the affection on your terms. Touch him more and give him affection. Stroke his thumb or hold his hand. He wants that from you.

The woman issue: He's lonely because he feels like you never have time for him. This is an old friend he feels comfortable talking to about his problems with you. As for not introducing you, have you talked to him about that? My current BF doesn't think to introduce me because all of his friends already know me, even if they haven't met me.

Relationships are hard. MAKE some time to sit down together and air grievances, then make love in every room of the house.

[iffylivy]

I have tons of time for him, he's just tired from work alot of the time. Which also means no making love, but that's not so much the issue.More so, he has more time to spend with others than with me.