[NuckingFutz]

Met this neighbor few months ago. He introduced himself as an a**hole. But he seemed okay. Then the next few times we met, I found out that he really was an a**hole. He's such an a**hole, that the managment at our apartments has a paper trail on him and is close to having his lease revoked.

This neighbor let me use his computer as the one I'm using in the lobby right now, was down for a couple of days. I'm so glad it's back up again. I would never have asked him to use it, but I was desperate to get this paper done for school. He did not have a program that I could type it on, so he said I could download one (he later said I couldn't download anything). I said that I would take Google off after I was done with my paper. I typed the paper while he talked non-stop in my ear about "n's" as in black people. He even referred to me acting like one. He also hit on his dislike for gay people once he knew I was gay. He also claims to have been in a war theater, Korea (he's 55 years old...do the math). I confronted him on that once and he got mad. Got on the gay thing and says the reason I am gay as I am the ugliest woman he has ever seen and if I was the last woman on earth, he would masterbate. I ask you now to look at my profile and tell me, am I the ugliest woman in the world? I feel like a freak. What this has to do with typing a paper I do not know. I have never heard this man speak a kind word about anybody. Normally I would just get otta there but after I deleted Google, I couldn't bring up the internet (I think it had to do with internet optiobns). But he was so ugly and he was screaming at me that I don't know what I am doing and to get out of his apartment. I left. He then called me 11 times that night and knocked on my door 7 times (including 1 time at 2:16 a.m. on my bedroom window.

I had the manager look into it and I think the trouble is over, but I have never seen such a bigger drunk ignorant stupid idiotic monster in my entire life. I wrote him up and I hope he will be out of here shortly.

Please, can someone who knows me a little bit let me know I'm a good person and not the ugliest girl in the world?

Thanks for reading this!

[roads]

You're an attractive gal with a huge heart for victims of abuse and for animals, and well thought of by your peers here on PsychCentral--e.g., notz, who's absolutely tops in my book & heart.
I'm so sorry this rotting poop showed up disguised as a neighbor and interrupted your life. Barf the experience if you can, gargle with something refreshing, and move on down the road!
Roadie

[hamster-bamster]

Well there is ONE GOOD THING that we are all getting out of this mess - we get to look at an attractive, chic, classy woman! Otherwise I would not have known to visit your profile!!

[seeker1950]

OH! You're gorgeous!
So sorry you have this monster neighbor!
I too have a very mean neighbor, who has harassed me since I moved
into this little house. She's in her 80's and has poisoned one of my cats, called the town inspector repeatedly if a drop of water flows onto her yard from mine (I live uphill from her, and water does flow downhill.) My other cat was impaled on her on her sharp fence, and when I told her, she said, "good, that's what it's there for!). I finally called the town police and told them I was afraid of her. They gave her a visit, and she hasn't spoken to me since!

[Leed]

Sweetie, you're gorgeous! And I've read lots of your posts, and you're a kind, caring person, who is FAR from anything that he said! That man is an absolute IDIOT -- a total BIGOT against anything that doesn't go along with his stupid narrow-minded beliefs. I have a feeling he doesn't have ONE friend in this world.

Erase everything you heard that night from your mind. Don't let that stuff live rent-free in your head. It's all just garbage anyway.

Remember, you're gorgeous, and you're kind and caring! God bless and take care! Hugs, Lee

[NuckingFutz]

Thank you all for the support. Manager informed me that if he bothers me again he is outta there. Seems other people here (including security) have had problems with this person.

Sending kisses to you all!

Don't allow that jerk to have power over you. He obviously has a lot of problems himself!

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by NuckingFutz

Seems other people here (including security) have had problems with this person.

That is not at all surprising.

[NuckingFutz]

The monster hasn't bothered me anymore!

I really appreciate all you guy's help. Will be updating my profile pic soon.

[wisewoman]

I know first hand that having a monster neighbor is very anxiety producing at best but from a distance here I just wanted to tell you that this man's words are ridiculously funny. It shows how pitiful he is. He is the ugly one with his ugly hatred and absurd words.