Why does he flirt with me then ignore me? Does he still like me? SO CONFUSED!

Hi! I am sorry if I am posting in the wrong place, but I can't seem to find a website that will help me with this issue, so here it goes. and thanks for reading!

My dad owns a construction company, and he hired this new guy named Jason. Jason would always stare at me, and I kinda knew he liked me but I wasn't for sure, but I suspected. Then my dad told me that Jason was talking about me saying that he liked me, and then it was proven he liked me. My friends said to me that they knew of Jason, and that he's a bad guy,he's mean,he's rude, and just overall a bad guy. I am the type though that doesn't fall for gossip, I would rather figure it out for myself if he's a bad guy, than hear word of mouth that he's a bad guy. So I gave him a chance.

I started talking to him, and he seemed cool. I went to a party and Jason was there. He was very flirty with me, he was complimenting me, hugging me, talking to me, just overall very FLIRTACIOUS AND BOLD! lol! He said to me"Want to go to a bar afterwards?" I said I can't cause I am not 21 yet, but then he asked for my number, and I agreed to give him my number. Well I went home around after 2am, and he is on my brother's facebook, and my brother was with me at the party, but when we left he was on his phone, and said "Hey, Jason just post on his wall, man he's drunk, haha!" The post said "Women are beautiful. I love how strong minded they are. Let's face it this world would be nothing without women." He said that right when we left, and he was only talking to me the whole night, so I am guessing towards me. What do you think?

Well a couple of weeks pass, and my brother bought a PS3 off of him, so I decided to text him, and joke around about it, and he thought I was funny, so he said to me "Meet me at the bar!" I said I can't cause I am not 21 yet, and I was in that bar before and they wouldn't serve me. I explained that, and he understood. However, we started texting each other off and on, and it was joking, goofy texts. It wasn't flirtacious, just fun, friendly texts. He called my phone alot but I didn't answer cause I was around my friends, and I couldn't let them know I was talking to Jason. So, I explained to Jason, that I can only text, cause I am so busy, he seemed ok with that.

Well he was always texting me, and seemed cool with me. All of a sudden he starting texting me saying how much he hates my dad, and is mad at my dad cause he didn't use him for a job. I was being neutral, and he got all mad at me, and started to ignore me. He got an attitude with me cause I said "I heard you were being a naughty boy! lol!" I was kidding , of course, but he called me, and said "What do you mean by that text?" " What the **** do you mean?" I said I was kidding, and he hung up on me. So I stopped texting him, and I stopped contact with him all together for 2 months.

Then, 2 months passed, and he calls up my dad (not me) to tell my dad that Sammy is having a party, and that he wanted me and my brother to come. My dad passed the message along, and I was debating on going. Well then 2 hours passed, and Jason messages my mom on Facebook saying "Where is Rob and Annie?" So my brother wanted to go, so then I went. When we arrived at the party, Jason was distant, he barely talked to us, but yet he wanted us there so badly. There was a girl, that Jason was flirting with in front of me, he was super bold with her, but he was also super drunk. He literally said in front of me"I wanna **** you" to this girl, and he was so talkitive, and flirty with her. He was trying to hard to hook up with her, but I was confused cause he barely spoke to me, but yet he wanted us to come over. So, when me and my brother were leaving, Jason had his lips out like he wanted to kiss me, and I said "Jason give me a hug." He said "No I only give kisses." So he kissed my brother on the cheek, and then he kissed me on the cheek. Lol I know! It's weird, but I was so confused. I didn't know why he wanted to kiss me. What do you think? Do you think he still likes me? Tell me what you think! Also what should I do? Should I keep in contact with him? I greatly appreciate any answer! Thank you!

1) Never date a guy you have to hide from your friends or apologize for.

2) He wanted you there so he could flirt with the other girl in front of you to get back at you for remaining neutral. I think he liked you at one time, but he's too busy drinking and being over 21. If you were over 21, it wouldn't be an issue.

3) Don't date guys that talk bad about your family.

4) Did he just flirt with you because you are the boss' daughter?

Your friends are right; he's an ***. Don't bother yourself with him. Do you want to be with a guy who treats you like that? I hope that your answer is "No."

Until that bit, everything was in good humor.

Your faux pas was your remaining neutral (I do not blame you as you were in a difficult situation, and I am not saying that I would not have done the same thing - I am just offering an objective opinion of an unemotional outsider).

You should have either:

- stop communicating because the twist of being in this kind of a situation that is riddled with possibilities of a conflict, gossip, "he said she said", etc. is never worth it

- communicated (assertively) that you do not entertain complaints about your dad.

Sometimes, remaining neutral is the right thing to do, but it was not that kind of a situation. You should have called him on what he was doing.
Having been unable to do handle that difficult challenge (again, I do not blame you at all, as it was objectively difficult even for a much older person) appropriately, you reached a point of no return. Now there is nothing to salvage, so you might as well forget about this guy.

In general, I agree with Rose in that you should not date guys who talk bad about your family; wholeheartedly agree. However, if someone talks bad about your family but you respond back instantly with an assertive message that calls the person on his talking bad about your family, and the person who talked bad about your family "gets it" and backs off with a "sorry, point taken", you might be able to go on. But you were not able to do that - you were neutral, which demonstrated your weakness. So - done deal and nothing can be done to fix it.

that is not a guy that can be trusted, believe me ive know lots like him, there out for attention, playing games and being a douche in general