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Old Aug 07, 2013, 05:59 AM
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I just don't like him, I think he's a douche and I get the feeling that he doesn't like me either. The other night we were watching TV and he kept making these perverse sexual comments about the woman on the show.. I almost got up and left the room and kinda wish I would've said something. My boyfriend and I often hang out with him and I kinda don't want to anymore. Should I tell my boyfriend that I don't like his roommate or just suck it up?

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Old Aug 07, 2013, 09:07 AM
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I never liked my husband's one room mate and dreaded time we spent with him. 37 years later I still have to see him now and then and I hate it. I totally understand how you feel.

Why don't you tell your BF that you want to spend more time with him alone and ask if you can do things just as a couple? You can also tell him that you find his room mates comments offensive and really don't want to spend time with him. It sounds like you did not invite him to join you. He is just there since you are at his place. Go somewhere else. Do something else. If he is good friends with your BF, give them time to do things together without you. With luck the room mate will find a girl and spend time with her and not you.
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Old Aug 07, 2013, 09:13 AM
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beads wuodl say yes..........we would absolutely tell the bf iffen his roommate says thigns that offend u tell him about it............tell him what he says and y u dotn like it and that u dotn feel u should be expected to be disrespected this way just to be around him.....do this friend HAVE to always be around when u all are tog.??
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