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Old Aug 08, 2013, 02:38 AM
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I know this guy probably only wants to use me for sex but wow idk he's so charming and attractive and I'm being a stupid girl ok bye. fml ugh screw highschool
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Old Aug 08, 2013, 03:18 AM
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I know this guy probably only wants to use me for sex but wow idk he's so charming and attractive and I'm being a stupid girl ok bye. fml ugh screw highschool
What is your relationship like with him? As in, are you friends at all? What makes you think he only wants to use you for sex?
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Old Aug 08, 2013, 08:21 AM
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High School is tough. Have you been dating this guy? If you don't have a personal relationship with him going on, I would agree it could be just for sex. Get to know him first and hold off on the sex until you know him better.
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Old Aug 08, 2013, 02:10 PM
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I know this guy probably only wants to use me for sex but wow idk he's so charming and attractive and I'm being a stupid girl ok bye. fml ugh screw highschool
If you are already feeling like a stupid girl, why make matters worse for your self esteem, if that's all he wants.

But you didn't explain more, than that. Has he befriended you? Are you talking about life and things outside of a sexual nature?

Is this more, a statement of self doubt?
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Old Aug 08, 2013, 02:28 PM
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If you're not absolutely sure then don't have sex with him. If you weren't considering having sex with him in the first place, but whether or not you should date him, then get to know him more, create a relationship, but make it clear early on that you want a special relationship before sex.
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Old Aug 08, 2013, 02:48 PM
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I would NEVER recommend starting out a relationship with sex. It's too easy to mistake sexual desires for genuine attraction.
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