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Sep 03, 2013, 03:37 PM
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this holiday it seems like everyone not bothering to talk with me, i am the one who starts chatting now, i don't want to bother anyone who doesn't want to speak with me. and i am starting to have black and white thoughts about them.
i am that kind of people who do nothing except setting in home at holiday, so i dont go outside or meet people. so i don't know if should just disappear from there life for a while and see what they will do, or should i just ignore them like they do with me, i don't like this ideas but i don't want to force anyone to be my friends. what do you think i should do?
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light over darkness  "Do not give in too much to feelings. An overly sensitive heart is an unhappy possession on this shaky earth" Johann Wolfgang von Goethe have faith and god will make everything better 
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Sep 03, 2013, 08:20 PM
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Amazed no one has replied. In my view, the adage is 'to have a friend, be a friend' but, and a big but, you can reach out just so many times. I know. Friends, real ones, reach out. I lost all mine, through my depression. I would in your position, say Hi, what you doing today ? Sometimes friends feel neglected too. Make an effort, touch base with them. Then, if they rebuff you, were they really friends at all ?
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Sep 03, 2013, 08:33 PM
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Disappearing to see what one would do, doesn't sound too enjoyable. Neither does, ignore me, I ignore you back. Hope the holiday gets better for you. |
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Sep 03, 2013, 09:09 PM
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i am doing my best to speak with them, i am always honest with them, and i tell them how i feel, but they doesn't seem to understand that i am really not alright this days.
i dont want to have negative thought about them but i think they have their own real friend so they doesn't need me, but then again when i try to speak with them i feel they are speaking with me normally, then ignore me, i am just not sure how they think  should i just ask how they are, and don't bother them with speaking about other things?
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light over darkness "Do not give in too much to feelings. An overly sensitive heart is an unhappy possession on this shaky earth" Johann Wolfgang von Goethe have faith and god will make everything better
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