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Originally Posted by Kevin1706
9 one night stands over a period of several months. She finally came clean and I feel like all the cards are on the table. I've felt paralyzed over the past month since she told me. Now at least I feel like I know what happened and can start my decisions to stay or leave.
Sadly right now, it feels like I need to leave.
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And, you may need to leave right now. Or leave for a period of time to step away and get clarity. If you do stay, it will only work if you can get beyond what has happened. If you hang on to the resentment/anger (which is totally justifiable), then it will never work and staying together will just be punishment for both of you. She seems very much on the defensive, and I have no idea what this is all about...I'm not sure why she'd bother going to counseling if she wants out unless this is just to prove to any lawyers that she made a good faith attempt to reconcile.
Have you asked her why she cheated? I'm just curious what answer she has given to a fairly straight-forward question.
Oct 07, 2013, 06:23 AM
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