[tacoqueen1993]

I honestly don't know what to do. on my earlier post I talked about how frustrated I am with my boyfriend constantly telling me things will get better but they only get worse. I am so done with this crap. I don't know If I am strong enough to leave him. It's so easy to say but so hard to do. I do love him, and I am attached. People keep telling me he won't change and I know I haven't been the best girlfriend out there. I have been abusive at times, and our realionship is really unhealthy, but maybe I should get out before It gets nasty. I can't deal with this again. I need stability, I need emotional support, and I can't seem to get the help or support I need from him. Maybe It's time for me to walk away. I don't want to give up so easily though because I have really grown to care about him, things have just been really rough lately but I need to get my life together, and maybe without him having the intention of bringing me down... he does. Should I try and talk things out, and see If things get any better in the next month, and this time put my foot down. I'm just so tired of being sick, and tired, and god damn broke.

[gayleggg]

You are probably not going to like my post, but here it is. You need to leave this guy. He has proved he is not willing change. And is there you when you need him to be. Cut you loses and get away as soon as I can.

[~Christina]

Your holding out hope he will wake up one day and be all those things for you.. It's never going to happen.. I am pretty certain you know this. Yes striking out alone can be a scarey thought... But I would rather be alone and making a better life for myself than wasting it on someone that would never grow up and be responsible.

[nervouskitty]

I guess two questions you might ask yourself are:
Would you want a daughter to stay?
Would you want a best gf to stay?

If your answers are "no" to both then you seriously need to consider "why you stay?".

Best wishes. You are in a tough space.

[gonnamove]

I've got through the same situation my self recently, and I understand the frustration. Finding the strength to leave is extremely hard, but it'll be better for both of you in the end. The strength is in you to do it though, since you've been so strong in trying to make it work.

I wish you the best of luck.