[nikkiwlks]

I have been in a relationship for 3 years and the past year has been extremely challenging. How do you know when enough is enough? I feel like he's left everything up to me as far as initiating sex and intimacy because he wants me to show him that it's just as important to me as it is to him, finances because I've lost my job so he needs me to handle this and kids, he doesn't want the added stress of the household while he's trying to make ends meet and pay bills. I respect that but what happened to partnership?

[curley]

OK Nikki, what century does this man live in. For one thing taking care of three kids and the house is a very full time job. Let him try it for a week and see if he would rather be back at a regular money earning job quick.
Then of course be the very sensual and sexual woman he wants when he gets home. Sounds like he has not got a clue.
Maybe you guys should try date night. Let him take you out and get away from all your daily responsibilities. Let him show you how much he appreciates all YOU do and maybe you can show him the sexy woman you are.