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#1
Nov 11, 2013, 10:55 PM
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Do I wait it out, or tell him? A lot of people think he likes me as well.
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Nov 12, 2013, 08:36 AM
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Wait it out.
If he actually does like you, then the relationship he is in won't last because he won't be fully committed to it. If he doesn't like you in that way, then you are risking a friendship along with making his girlfriend uncomfortable if and when she finds out. And, either way, is it really fair of you to put him on the spot like that? It would be putting him in a situation where he has to choose, and do you really want to risk the hurt of him choosing her over you?
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Nov 12, 2013, 02:31 PM
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Agree with Panda, in not putting him on the spot.
I also pose this other question: Do you really want to be the girl that broke them up if that's what happens? Even if it were what he would want eventually, you'll forever be in the position of being the one that caused the breakup. So if it is to be, if he really likes you, let it play out and just be a friend. NOTHING MORE. Until he's unattached, he's out of bounds, IMO. |
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Nov 12, 2013, 03:46 PM
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Nov 12, 2013, 06:45 PM
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I completely understand this so much. Its crazy.
- I fell in love with my best friend a while ago, completely loved him but never told him thinking it would ruin our friendship and make things complicated when he didn't like me back. - I fell in love with my now girlfriend (his other bestfriend) - He told me how he always felt - I told him it was mutual - Le girlfriend found out and its completely ruined her friendship with him and its messing with our relationship. Wait it out definetley. You don't want to be the reason their relationship is a disaster and be the cause of pain and confusion for this guy. Things will work out in the end... or at least thats what I keep telling myself. Telling him now would cause alot of pain for everyone. Best of luck though 
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