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Old Nov 29, 2013, 08:19 PM
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Well, my fiancee can't drive cause of her epilepsy under law. Has to be cleared from seizures in 8 months. It's my fiancee that cannot drive yet. We have to find an apartment close to my job when offered. This is what I'm saying. She hates being at home cause her mother stresses her our of living together. She hates the same routine all the time.

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Old Nov 30, 2013, 12:17 AM
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Sounds reasonable to me that she would want to live near to your job. Is her mother giving her and you a hard time about it?
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 02:23 AM
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Sounds reasonable to me that she would want to live near to your job. Is her mother giving her and you a hard time about it?
Yes her mother is against us living together cause we're not married yet. But we're engaged.
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 03:57 AM
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What does your fiance want to do? I went through a time with my fiance with something similar - parents did not want us to be together or living together but we both wanted to move in. It took time and a lot of patience on our part but eventually our parents began to understand.

You need to do what is best for you and your fiance. Usually parents will accept it in time, especially if they can understand the good reasons behind it.
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 07:47 AM
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What does your fiance want to do? I went through a time with my fiance with something similar - parents did not want us to be together or living together but we both wanted to move in. It took time and a lot of patience on our part but eventually our parents began to understand.

You need to do what is best for you and your fiance. Usually parents will accept it in time, especially if they can understand the good reasons behind it.
My fiancee wants to live together despite her mom says. It'll be easier for us. It seems her mom doesn't want us to save money instead of spending it on gas majority of the time. I put on 6300 miles on my car cause we don't have no where else to go besides my parents house. We are trying to be more practical. But her mom is being stupid over it.
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Old Dec 01, 2013, 08:35 PM
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I can understand her values but ultimately I really would suggest doing what is right for you and your fiance. It is your life and if it is easier for the two of you then i would say go for it - as long as your fiance is ok with it and aware that it might impact on her relationship with her mother.
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