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  #51  
Old Jan 07, 2014, 11:10 AM
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exactly! but none can ever love me
Not willing to change either

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Old Jan 07, 2014, 11:11 AM
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I don't get it

You're being contradictory, you say "exactly" like you agree with me regarding love, and then immediately afterward you disagree and say "but none can ever love me"....

I don't get it do you want to hear us agree with you about being unlovable or would you prefer we listen to you vent?

I ask because this subject doesn't seem open for discussion and I'm not sure what type of support you seek.
Exactly, she hears what she wants to hear and not willing to actually listen.

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Old Jan 07, 2014, 03:05 PM
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there is ur reality and there is my reality. my reality, in that aspect, should be like urs but isnt. the fact u share it wont change my reality. but that doesnt mean i dont appreciate ur reply. tc

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I don't get it

You're being contradictory, you say "exactly" like you agree with me regarding love, and then immediately afterward you disagree and say "but none can ever love me"....

I don't get it do you want to hear us agree with you about being unlovable or would you prefer we listen to you vent?

I ask because this subject doesn't seem open for discussion and I'm not sure what type of support you seek.
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Thanks for this!
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Old Jan 07, 2014, 03:27 PM
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there is ur reality and there is my reality. my reality, in that aspect, should be like urs but isnt. the fact u share it wont change my reality. but that doesnt mean i dont appreciate ur reply. tc
Sometimes we need to be open to a different reality in order to welcome it as our own.

Self condemnation cannot lead one to a happy healthy reality because self-fullfillng prophesies have a way of coming true, and they are more real than a lot of people are open to believing.

No. I'm not saying you must positively think yourself to euphoria, but what I am saying is that closing your eyes to the possiblities make it impossible to see the opportunities presented before you.
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Old Jan 07, 2014, 04:51 PM
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what opportunities? i have nothing in my life. i just exist unfortunately.
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Old Jan 07, 2014, 05:52 PM
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what opportunities? i have nothing in my life. i just exist unfortunately.
Let's go through your biography and present situation. (If you willing to listen). All I hear is nothing, never, no, well but, can never. If you looking for sympathy it's fine but if not let's finally talk.

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Old Jan 07, 2014, 09:54 PM
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lol i have no idea what u want.
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Old Jan 08, 2014, 01:24 AM
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lol i have no idea what u want.
Never mind

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Old Jan 08, 2014, 01:38 AM
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perfect

p.s.: just bc u SAY something u wont change anyone, specially when all they had in life is s.hit. if it was like that i woulndt need a therapist. more, people wouldnt even be sick!
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