[emoangel]

Lately things have been really bad, last night i found out that not only was i not accepted to the school of education at the university of connecticut, but i also found out that my boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me. I havent decided if we are going to stay together or not. Im really confused and hurt. On the one hand, i love him so so so so so much, more than anything in the entire world, more then my own self, and on the other hand, hes lied to me before a few times, and i know that i dont deserve that kind of treatment. Things are so messed up right now...can anyone help me? i just need some comfort and advice.

thanks

emoangel

all things shall pass...even life.

[Butterfly_Faerie]

Hon I'm really sorry that this happened.

As the saying goes Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater. You deserve so much better you don't deserve to be hurt like that, the best thing you can do is be rid of him and find someone who loves you, he doesn't love you, if he did he wouldn't have cheated.

Sending you lots of hugs.

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>

[WendyE]

WOW!! What a day you had!! I'm so sorry this has all came down on you at once. I've been in your position in the past with a cheating boyfriend. I made him my first husband!! AAAHHHHHHHH!! BAD MOVE on my part. LOL I also loved him more than I loved myself. I loved him more than LIFE itself!! He cheated and cheated on me durring our relationship and then our marrage. You REALLY don't want to end up like I did. Please don't. At 21 I had a 2 year old and a husband who eventually beat me and that's when I finally kicked his butt to the curb!! I'm not saying he would ever get physical with you but I was sooooo very unhappy. A cheater is a cheater is a cheater what ever way you look at it. A leapord does not change his spots. If he does it once he'll do it again and again. I've learned that the hard way!! LOL Don't allow someone do that to you. You have to be more important to you. Hang in there and try not to let all of this get you to far down. The farther down you go, the longer it is to get back up.

Love,
Wendy