[skittles]

me and my b/f have a good relationship..... we get along well and everything.. but seems like somethings missing..... my sister just told me 2 weeks ago that shes 4 months preg.... that got me really thinking.... i want a baby..... ive told my b/f that in the past but he all he said is that hes not ready for that but that was a year ago...... i want to tell him that i want one but i dont know how hes going to react.... im also wanting to get married.. weve been together going on 2 years in march... i think ive found the person im meant to be with and i want to get married to him....... im not sure how to bring this up to him.. ive been hinting about the marrage thing ... one day i said you prob wouldnt want to marry me... he said how do u know and i said im psyhic and he said well your not a very good one then.... is that a good thing he sid that??? we talk about if we had kids what we would do.... i wonder if hes ready for them yet.. i am...... and im driving myself crazy thinking about it

[nothemama8]

sounds like you and bf need to have a commitment first, if it doesn't work out you find your true soul mate, having kids is not an option without the commitment from both

[skittles]

yes we r commited....... i think if i tell him that he will maybe want to this time