[goldmaiden]

I really want a boyfriend.

I have asked hmmm like three people out this year...and for different reasons they didn't say yes.

I know i have to meet more people, i am just stuck on these people.

xx

[SpazKatt]

It is natural for one to want a boyfriend. But I hope you are not doing this to feel good about yourself. You need to love yourself before you can love anyone else. I find that whenever you stop looking something comes along. I think it's because guys like the girl that seems "unavailable" Anyhow best of luck in your quest

[goldmaiden]

Yeah, that's the one thing that i do wrong, Spaz. I always come on too strong, as the expression goes, yet i am not into playing hard to get. But no, i am not doing it just to feel good about myself, rather to fulfill some parts of me that need that, and to complete me a little more.

I am doing almost the most that one could do to meet the right guy, and i suppose they will come along, yet i don't know when. It's a mystery!

Thanks for your comment *hug*

[SpazKatt]

You're welcome, *hugs* to you!

P.S. in my opinion no woman should need a man to be complete. But if that's what you feel you need I won't judge!

[goldmaiden]

I know what you mean but i think us girls do need guys to feel whole.

It's like the way they say humans actually NEED sex like food, water, air.

I think it's natural to seek a companion, a partner and there is a part of us that needs that, not to feel good about ourselves, solely but to love and to love back in a way that is different from family and friends.

But yeah you don't want to need a boyfriend to feel worthy etc, good about yourself. I feel pretty complete and happy, but i want to take things further in life and make some strong, close friendships so that i can experience everything life has to offer.

xx

[Lakesha]

My want is to have someone love me as much as i love them!
What i put out i don't get back.

[Perna]

The most impressive thing I've seen is when my girlfriend decided she was ready to get married and joined a square dance group (not our thing at all!) and met her future husband there. I was asking her about it because she had really changed over the previous 4-5 months in subtle ways so it was hard to tell exactly what was different and she said she just "decided" and worked on being more outgoing and meeting people. I've always believed there is something to that "when the student is ready, the teacher will appear" thing; I've had that happen and I know what I went through when meeting my husband, how that was a real learning experience for me.