[Broncos38]

Well, the advocate tells me to stay in the car while my fiancee goes into her parents house with the advocate. While I am on standby. But I really don't feel comfortable being by myself in my car while this meeting is happening. My fiancee wants my support without that she's not in her comfort zone without me next to her on the love seat. If I can't go in with her what am supposed to do in the mean time. This is going to be very hard for me and my fiancee to deal with with.

[hamster-bamster]

The advocate most likely, or at least one hopes, knows what he or she is doing, so I would put on music and stay in the car. I don't know the context since I have not been reading your earlier posts, but I conclude that whatever the problem is, you and your fiancee were unable to deal with it, which necessitated finding the advocate. Well, then go with the advocate's recommendations and try to relax.

[Broncos38]

well her parents met my parents it's probably not a big deal. To make peace but my fiancee was unsure if my mom wanted me in the middle of it cause my fiancee was pressured into something she can't deal with. But my mom said I'm in the middle of it either way. Her mom didn't do anything to me