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Feb 19, 2014, 09:23 AM
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hello my name is courtney, and im not married yet but have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have 3 children together. i love this man even though he has done me wrong in the past. the first time he messed up was when he was talking and sending and receiving dirty pics to some girl. they planned to meet up but i dont know if they have or not because this all happened while he was working and there would be times he would have to stay and work overnight and the girl lived nearby.i confronted him on everything and he cried to me but i left for 2 weeks and stayed with my parents. after that first time i would find girls numbers and have found condoms before and after having my second child he was trying to get with an older woman or her daughter and had a secret facebook. i dont know if he has ever met anybody or slept with anyone but i do have my doubts because he had many chances with the jobs he had working alone in the car. two years later after the last time i found something he is wanting an ipad. He knows i have gone through his stuff and permits me and tells me too but im sure he could be sneaky again somehow. i love this man for many reasons and want to believe him when he says hes done but its hard. if he does get the ipad or tablet it will be extremely hard for me to believe he wouldnt cheat again especially because he told his friends on xbox that he dont have a facebook and wont because he loves woman to much. when we get onto the subject of him and other woman he gets mad quick when i say i dont believe him or that its hard for me to believe him. i dont know what i am suppose to do or how i can trust him anymore. is there anyone that can help me or has an opinion? thank you i appreciate the help!
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Feb 19, 2014, 03:32 PM
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If he is going to cheat on you having an iPad will not make any difference. If he is cheating he's cheating, if not then there is nothing to worry about.
I agree he doesn't have a very good track record. You might want to try couples counseling before getting married though, because it sounds like the two of you have a lot to work out. Good luck. 
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Feb 19, 2014, 07:07 PM
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