[psychmajortwenty2]

Hi everyone,

I've recently entered into my first real and serious relationship... my bf and I have been going out for 4 months. It's definitely true love.. we see each other as we really are with one another. There are things that annoy us about the other one.. but nothing that is that big of a deal at all... usually it's just funny.. like how loud he chews sometimes.. or how I can get really spacey (but we're both ADHD so we both understand that one lol). We understand each other really well. I never knew I could meet someone who could accept me completely for how weird/quirky/and just everything that I can be. He thinks I'm absolutely awesome.. and I think he's really awesome too!

We're going to move into together soon. We're also planning to get married when we're both 25.

And I know this is fast that we're all talking about this and everything.. trust me.. I never thought I would fall so deeply in love this fast and hard and real. but it is..

When you know, you know.

What I'm worried about is becoming co-dependent on one another. What are the signs for co-dependency? What can you do to prevent it?

[unaluna]

Yo. Idk about codependent. Usually that means one person has an addiction. You are moving kind of fast, though. It takes me 3 months true elapse time just to figure out if i like a regular person. Please leave yourselves an out.

What's the rush? Take your time. Usually a co-dependent is attracted to someone who has some sort of an addiction. The co-dependent tries to fix them and looks the other way when the addict acts out. There is an organization called CoDA (co-dependents anonymous) that has a website that lists the traits of co-dependency. Do a Google search for it. Never rush into a relationship. Always take your time and use your head as much as you use your heart.