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Old Mar 27, 2014, 10:22 PM
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My sister is so rude.

She always say I am wrong, that its true.If is do anything wrong, incorrect, or not right. She has to correct me. It is in rude way to. She correct, yells at me so much. I t so stressful,& it also makes me depressed. I tell her to stop, but she says its my fault, thats she doesn't do anything wrong. She brags about how could she is at things.

She never compliments me, never, is just rude, judgmental.
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Old Mar 27, 2014, 10:53 PM
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When she's being like that, have your parents tried correcting her on it? Is it done in front of them?

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Old Mar 28, 2014, 06:55 AM
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Yes, they correct her, they have seen. But, she NEVER stops
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Old Mar 28, 2014, 07:46 AM
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How old is your sister?

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Old Mar 28, 2014, 09:35 AM
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I have a sib like that and we're adults. They'll proudly discuss their strong opinions all day long, and any time I say anything the least bit opinionated, they'll instantly chime in with a short lecture about how what I just said was either unwarranted or irrelevant. All I can say is don't invite them over for the holidays when you're adults.
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Old Mar 28, 2014, 09:43 AM
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I have to live with this EVERY day. It is really stressing me out, makes feel depressed, , Shas has made me want ti SI.
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Old Mar 28, 2014, 09:01 PM
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I've experienced this, not much anymore though. It drove me to complete madness because it was constant. However, what I learnt is to remove myself from the situation. I walk away when she starts. She keeps going even when I'm gone but I just don't care.
Sometimes, standing up for yourself works too. I mean like, don't just say stop, tell her the truth. Theres no need to be rude but just be brutally honest. But the fact is, siblings are always difficult. Some more than others but just remember, they\re still family.
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Old Apr 08, 2014, 08:29 PM
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She never compliments me, unless I dress up, she was nice for homecoming.She told me I do not take care of myself, & that I need to look better. She doesn't have anything nice to say.
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Old Apr 08, 2014, 09:08 PM
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It is sad that some people have such narrow minds that they need to have others fit into what they deem correct. You need to stop asking for her opinions and don't give into her need to tell you who you should be. Unfortunately some people are so insecure that they have a need to find ways to put others down. Often with siblings one sibling will have a need to find ways to put themselves above the others because they actually have more need for attention and approval. Your sister is a "bully", so just do your best to ignore her, bullies thrive on power and attention.

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